tx281 Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 Hi, My name is Philip. I am new to the site and have a question that maybe I can get a honest opinion. There is this girl that I've previous relationship in high school who end up turning into my best friend for about 6 years now...we have been very close through out time. Unfortunately we had so life events that prevented us from having another relationship. There was a time that we were going to get back together but I was sent to the marines and when I got back she moved out of state for college. During the time I was in the marines I truely opened up to her in a letter. I didnt get a reply back but her friend who is also is a friend of mine told me that she really regret not replying back and not tell me that she felt the same way that I did. By the time I got back she moved out of state to college. Throught that time we did keep in touch. After a year later she came back to were she is orginally from and were I live. We have hung out multiple times since she has been back. And honestly seeing it from both sides we are reconnecting. Every time we hang out it's by ourselves and we talk for hours we pretty much act like a couple. But the thing is I have this voice in the back of my head that tells me she probably wants to be friends which is preventing me to ask her out again cause I dont want things to be awkward between us. But I kinda do see signs that she might be interested. Like I hung out with her last week and this weekend when I arrived at her place she grabbed me and hugged me acting like she hasnt seen me in years. We do flirt often and she recently told me that no one but me can make her laugh like I do. But I just dont know though. Also I wouldn't know how to ask her with out making things awkward. This girl means the world to me. Please, any advice would be great thanks.
january2011 Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 How strongly would you regret never saying a word about how you feel? I suggest being honest and saying that you've developed feelings for her and ask her how she feels about that.
Author tx281 Posted April 16, 2012 Author Posted April 16, 2012 I probably would regret it a lot and never forgive myself. I'm just afraid if I say anything that it would change to friendship we have..... Thank you for the reply
january2011 Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 The friendship has already changed because you have feelings for her. She might even have already picked up on this and things are already awkward because there's a big elephant in the room now.
Feelin Frisky Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 I probably would regret it a lot and never forgive myself. I'm just afraid if I say anything that it would change to friendship we have..... Thank you for the reply Are you really USMCHokie? Anyway, welcome to LS. Now man the hell up, marine, and make love to her. Hua? Oh, and, report back.
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