mymission Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 It was all my fault, and I love him so much. Can't sleep. Just re-reading arguements we've had since the breakup. People say the first week or so after the breakup is the worst. But no I think the way I feel now is worse, 2 months down the line Because I know the breakup was my fault. I have pushed him further away with my contact and begging. I know for sure he's not coming back and that's worse! I'd rather have the hope.
xxSRMxx Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 Everytime you want to contact him come on here! You will push them away even more by constantly getting in touch, I know its hard, I turned up at my ex's sat night drunk! but he was okay about it and understood i was just drunk and emotional. I def wont be doing it again though! Post here instead!!! were all in the same boat!
zoomzoom Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 Stay strong, Today was my two month mark. It is so hard this far out but just keep working on you!!
HollyBolly Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 I just hit my 2 month mark, as well. Something about the 2 month mark that makes us crazy. Don't worry about it, hon. We're here for each other.
WildHorses Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 Texting Terrorism, emailing, calling them is not a good idea. I have tried that tactic in my day and it NEVER helps the situation. People need their space. Doing any of that, including stalking, will never help the situation. It will not only push them further, it makes you look desperate, and they will also think you look desperate and possibly psycho. Good to leave that person be. Take this time to focus on yourself and your healing...if this person is meant to come back into you life, they will. If this person really wants to talk to you, they will come around. Stay positive! 1
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