Should I bother to return her clothing?

[Nextlane]

I broke up with my ex about 2 months ago with NC and have already packed all her clothing from my home into a bag and ready to deliver. When I asked for my stuff clothing about a weeks ago through her brother as I prefered to drop and collect same time for convinence (a bit of a drive), he responded all my clothes were thrown out.

 

I'm planning on dropping off all her clothing tonight at her workplace just out of respect. However, if I do manage to see her on tonight's shift (which I'm hoping not too), will her seeing me give her an ego boost?

 

Again, these clothes have been around my home for a while but I've been very busy. I really want them gone ASAP.

 

Thanks

[betterdeal]

She threw yours out so throwing hers out would seem fair, and the quickest and easiest way to get rid of them ASAP.

[fucpcg]

Give them back.

[The dot]

She threw yours out so throwing hers out would seem fair, and the quickest and easiest way to get rid of them ASAP.

 

Yes, it would seem fair, but does the OP really want to play her games?

 

One thing I like doing in life is maintaining a high standard of integrity, especially to people who don't maintain one themselves -- just so I can show them up. My advice, give her clothes back, but don't ever talk to her again.

[Nextlane]

I will be returning her clothes back.

 

End of the day I need to be a bigger man here. I'm sure she may not regret her actions in this instance, but I suppose in time she will be remorseful for her actions.