tommycapnpants Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 hey all. so, this is my first post on the dating section. just got out of a ltr/ldr relationship about a month ago. anways, i was on a flight from vegas to midland, tx to visit family. this attractive woman started talking to me, as she was sitting next to me. she said she was visiting her bf in midland. she is from socal...not very far from where i live in vegas. anyways, as the plane landed i gave her my number. she then immediately texted me saying "hi, this is so and so and this is my number." how should i proceed? thanks guys
riggs Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 Did the conversation on the plane feel staged? Flying is kind of a fantasyland so she may have just wanted to see if you were interested in order to help her confidence. If you want to get to know her better, skip the texting and call her. If she doesn't answer or return your call I'd move on.
riggs Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 [cough]MileHighClub[cough] No way that ever happens. In those teeny tiny bathrooms?
riggs Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 Maybe the solo mile high club, if you know what I mean.
wwwjd Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 pfffff. don't even need the bathroom for that. blanket and barf bag and you are set. But PLEASE make sure it is a night flight and the over head light is OFF!!!
SimonMas Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 she said she was visiting her bf in midland. s You said she has a bf? That is a red flag. If you just wanna be her friend, then go ahead but I will still be very careful if I were you.
TaraMaiden Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 ....she said she was visiting her bf in midland. To break up with him F2F, I presume...? how should i proceed? with the utmost reticence and caution.
Author tommycapnpants Posted April 15, 2012 Author Posted April 15, 2012 I totally agree with you guys. I mean I just got dumped by my ldr gf last month...I presume because of another guy, even though she denies that. So, I don't want to stir any water in other ppls relationships. I guess it felt nice to have an attractive girl give her number to me so freely...after my breakup and all.
Author tommycapnpants Posted April 16, 2012 Author Posted April 16, 2012 also riggs, it did not feel staged at all. i actually picked my seat purposefully. there were three women, each in one row of seats to themselves. i chose the cutest one. the conversation started with her asking "do you know how long this flight is?" i think im gonna call her tomorrow. just a friendly hi and i will be going to cali this tues and wed for some work. i will see if she wants to meet up for a drink or something near her school, USC.
TaraMaiden Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 Bad idea. Bad, bad idea... you say you don't want to get between her and her BF, but your innocent 'just go for a drink' will speak volumes to her.... Ask her if her BF is ok with you two hanging out together.....I'm sure she'll reply in the affirmative....
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