whattothink Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 I've been hanging out with this guy for 6 weeks now. We see each other every other week-ish, sometimes a few more times. Mostly watching movies and we've done everything but. We mess around, shower together, go to sleep, etc. Here's the deal- I don't know if he's interested in a relationship or just what we're doing. We're not sleeping together. I'm rather chatty and he's more guarded so he's hard to read with his words. I mentioned something about dating several weeks ago in a text and his response was that I said I didn't want to date him. He was referring to our first conversation when I said we were so different. We are. I guess I'm just wondering because I feel sooooo comfortable around him, especially naked and I don't usually feel that way around men. I mentioned one night when he left that if he asked me to drinks, I'd say yes and he kissed me, smiled and left (the day he mentioned I said I didn't want to date). Help!!! Thanks in advance- know I can always count on you all!
RachR Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 At this point I'd say directly tell him that you want to date (none of this "I'd go out for drinks if you asked me" stuff), and go from there.
BewitchedandBothered Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 I've been hanging out with this guy for 6 weeks now. We see each other every other week-ish, sometimes a few more times. Mostly watching movies and we've done everything but. We mess around, shower together, go to sleep, etc. Here's the deal- I don't know if he's interested in a relationship or just what we're doing. We're not sleeping together. I'm rather chatty and he's more guarded so he's hard to read with his words. I mentioned something about dating several weeks ago in a text and his response was that I said I didn't want to date him. He was referring to our first conversation when I said we were so different. We are. I guess I'm just wondering because I feel sooooo comfortable around him, especially naked and I don't usually feel that way around men. I mentioned one night when he left that if he asked me to drinks, I'd say yes and he kissed me, smiled and left (the day he mentioned I said I didn't want to date). Help!!! Thanks in advance- know I can always count on you all! ...call me old fashioned,but if this isn't dating...what is it?
Pierre Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 Sounds like FWB with no intercourse. Why do women say they don't want to date and then take their clothes off?
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