Princess71 Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 Guys, what would cause you to "freak out" during a make out session such that you would need to leave? It's really just kissing for 45 minutes or so with someone you've been friends with for a while and the relationship took a turn. 1
sid3 Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 A lot of things actually. From not feeling well all of a sudden to being told something that was troublesome.
wwwjd Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 I might freak out if I suddenly found myself just kissing for 45 minutes or so with someone I've been friends with for a while and the relationship took a SUDDEN turn. 45 minutes would have thoughts of cold showers running through my head, and I would need a short breather.... then jump back in. My record is 4 hours of kissing once. Did he just jump up and leave? Stop abruptly reconsidering why he was doing it? NEED MORE INPUT!!!
The dot Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 Guys, what would cause you to "freak out" during a make out session such that you would need to leave? It's really just kissing for 45 minutes or so with someone you've been friends with for a while and the relationship took a turn. The mere fact that I spent 45 minutes kissing without progressing onto something else would be enough in itself to make me freak out. 3
wwwjd Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 The mere fact that I spent 45 minutes kissing without progressing onto something else would be enough in itself to make me freak out. Come on, Fast Freddy, that is just barely starting to get warmed up. Gotta heat the oils in the crankcase for a couple hours to get the engine purring like a Sabre Toothed kitten
The dot Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 Come on, Fast Freddy, that is just barely starting to get warmed up. Gotta heat the oils in the crankcase for a couple hours to get the engine purring like a Sabre Toothed kitten The engine might take a while to warm up, but some of us have other things we need to attend to as well. The bottom line is that there comes a time when you realise someone just isn't into you in that way. It's entirely their choice, of course, but if someone's not ready for me that night, well, there are other things (and probably other people) that I could be doing.
OhHey Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 If she puked in my mouth....that would end it quickly.
dasein Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 Agree with "the dot." 45 minutes of "making out" ain't happening unless she's a perfect 10 and mostly naked. For anyone else, 15 minutes of that is all ya get before going to the next stage in bed, or it's time for one of us to go home.
Feelsgoodman Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 Guys, what would cause you to "freak out" during a make out session such that you would need to leave? It's really just kissing for 45 minutes or so with someone you've been friends with for a while and the relationship took a turn. Well, there is a number of possibilities. Reaching into your pants and discovering a cock would be one example...
g450 Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 The mere fact that I spent 45 minutes kissing without progressing onto something else would be enough in itself to make me freak out. ^^^^^^^ This! And seriously? 45 minutes? Poor guy was probably chaffed and bleeding at the mouth. Not to mention lockjaw. I personally I would wonder "what the hell is this girl doing?" Either lets do the deed or at least let me come up for air long enough to finish off my cheezburger LOL. Im guessing you are in your teens right?
FitChick Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 I'm surprised this hasn't been mentioned yet: He came in his pants.
SJC2008 Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 I'm surprised this hasn't been mentioned yet: He came in his pants. A la She's Out of My League lol
Author Princess71 Posted April 15, 2012 Author Posted April 15, 2012 ^^^^^^^ This! And seriously? 45 minutes? Poor guy was probably chaffed and bleeding at the mouth. Not to mention lockjaw. I personally I would wonder "what the hell is this girl doing?" Either lets do the deed or at least let me come up for air long enough to finish off my cheezburger LOL. Im guessing you are in your teens right? Nope, he's the one who didn't want to take it further. We would stop and start a few times and then I said you want to go into the other room ( the bedroom) and he said no. He's definitely not married but told me he has a social anxiety problem with women. I was friends with him for a few months and then we started flirting HEAVILY online and then this nite we hung out. Since that night he won't see me again. He admits he freaked out after our make out session but told me he doesn't know why. I am just so confused. What could have happened???
dasein Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 It's possible he needed to fart or was having digestive issues. Was alcohol involved?
bac Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 (edited) Guys, what would cause you to "freak out" during a make out session such that you would need to leave? It's really just kissing for 45 minutes or so with someone you've been friends with for a while and the relationship took a turn. A strong fear of something. I assume that guys would do that if a girl said that she wants only a serious exclusive R. Perhaps, a guy has a fear about his sexual performance because of lack of experience and social anxiety. Because he has social anxiety he probably has irrational belief that there is something wrong with his sexual performance. They often think that their d...ks are too small and that they cannot last long enough. But, IRL the guys with social anxiety are good at sex. Edited April 15, 2012 by bac
g450 Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 OK I have to ask. How old are the both of you. This matters in context. The fact that you were tougue tied for that long was a clue that your both a bit young. Who does that for 45 mins? Seriously? Teens? If you are teens then yeah I can see that happening. He may be a virgin and it may have been his first time and he freaked. Or you have him lock jaw and his penis stopped working after that LOL. Did you brush your teeth that night? Just kidding. Sounds like he has some issues. But if you are both in your teens (which Im guessing is the case here) I would not sweat it. Give it another chance. But we really need more info than what you gave us to make any real hypothesis.
Feelin Frisky Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 Personally, when I'd feel a boner in her pants. ... Ha, you beat me to that one. No penis, no freakout.
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