swag7581 Posted April 14, 2012 Posted April 14, 2012 I need some guidance on whether or not I should inform the guy who, I strongly believe, my soon to be ex-gf has been seeing. Quick background: - we have been in a long distance for ~2 years; however we split up last nov-dec -when we got back together in jan, I found out she had dated a guy who used to be a close friend. She spent a lot of time with him, but told me she couldn't get serious with him bc she Still had feelings for me. Recently: - I found a receipt dated two weeks ago (end of march) for an oil change on her car. He had paid for it and all of his contact info was on the receipt. - when I asked her about this, she got super pissed and came up with three different stories. None of them make sense. - she is now also interning at a law firm home < 1 mile away from his house. Of all the 100s of law firms, I found it ironic she picked that one. - when I asked her when was the last time she saw him, she would not answer *HELP Should I contact him? If she is playing two guys, I feel I should let him know. What should I say?
Nohbody Posted April 14, 2012 Posted April 14, 2012 Just be matter of fact and honest. Or just break it off and let the other dude fend for himself. Either or.
HollyBolly Posted April 14, 2012 Posted April 14, 2012 If you can't or don't trust her, you shouldn't be with her. It's your vindictive side that's telling you to inform on her to this guy. No one is going to believe it is because you care about his feelings. And what if you tell him and he laughs in your face, saying he knows about you? What then? So...tell him if you think it will make you feel better. I honestly believe it serves no purpose. What is important here is that you end this relationship if you cannot trust her.
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