wootwoot Posted April 14, 2012 Posted April 14, 2012 someone at work asked me out. we had been flirting but it was nothing serious. but, when he found out that I was going out on a date with someone else, he told me how jealous he was and how he has such a big crush on me. so we went on a date. we went to see a movie together. this was the first time hanging out with him outside of work and surprisingly i realized that i had undeniable chemistry with him. so the second time hanging out after work, i went over to his place. we watched a movie. we fooled around and he wanted to have sex but i said no...although i gave in in the morning after. we had breakfast afterwards and on my way home, i wasn't feeling that great about myself for having sex with him. and on our third date, he had reserved a table at a great restaurant. we went for a walk and got dessert afterwards. he invited me over to his place and wanted to have sex but i said no. explained why and he seemed to understand. so we cuddled and watched a movie. a couple days later, he asked if he could come over and i said sure. we were watching a movie and fooling around...ended up having sex but didn't climax. now ever since that night, he stopped calling me after work. we see each other everyday at work and everything is fine. one thing that bothers me is that he is here only supposed to be here for another couple months. he is from another city. i just don't understand why he wouldn't even text me good night or call me like he used to. is it because he doesn't feel the need to? or has he lost interest? or does he not take me serious enough? he initiated all this and i feel like he's leaving me hanging.. any insights/opinions would be appreciated!
january2011 Posted April 14, 2012 Posted April 14, 2012 It may be that this was just a friends with benefits situation due to his circumstances and you yourself suggest that it was nothing serious. If this is the case, he may feel that he doesn't owe you any explanations nor does he need to return your calls - that is, you both had a good time while it lasted but he doesn't want to/can't give you anything more than that.
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