I may suck at dating but I never did anything pathetic like this

[Necris]

There's many women here who have gloated here about the undesirable men they get attention from and how they should go about dumping them.

 

There's also women who use men emotionally without giving it too much of a second thought. Same or worse as men using women for sex.

 

Not that I agree with OP's attitude, but it's the same as many other people...

 

This is all true and doesn't make them better they are all just as pathetic.

[johan]

There's many women here who have gloated here about the undesirable men they get attention from and how they should go about dumping them.

 

How many is many? Do you have a number in mind? Maybe there are 2 in the history of LS?

[jobaba]

Find one, please, with a link. Thanks.

 

I'm not doing that. I'm not going to specifically vilify someone.

 

But rest assured, at least one female who has already posted on this thread has gloated about undesirable men in a similar fashion and/or used men.

 

I'm just saying, what OP is doing is not too different from the way A LOT of people do things.

[PhillyDude]

I'm not doing that. I'm not going to specifically vilify someone.

 

But rest assured, at least one female who has already posted on this thread has gloated about undesirable men in a similar fashion and/or used men.

 

I'm just saying, what OP is doing is not too different from the way A LOT of people do things.

 

 

You have to remember it's only ok for a female to do it because she was born with a magical hole.

[johan]

I'm not doing that. I'm not going to specifically vilify someone.

 

But rest assured, at least one female who has already posted on this thread has gloated about undesirable men in a similar fashion and/or used men.

 

I'm just saying, what OP is doing is not too different from the way A LOT of people do things.

 

What do you want people to conclude from that? I don't see how it's relevant.

[Necris]

You have to remember it's only ok for a female to do it because she was born with a magical hole.

 

PhillyDude just because someone else does something doesn't make it good. If you see someone punch someone in the stomach for no reason are you going to do that too just because they are doing it?

[Ginger Grant]

You have to remember it's only ok for a female to do it because she was born with a magical hole.

 

You should look up that tranny, now that's a "magical hole" for you.

[jobaba]

Find one, please, with a link. Thanks.

 

Here's one from a non-regular transient poster...

 

I dont want to come off as stuck up or a bitch its just that when unattractive Men approach me i feel like i cant be that attractive if an ugly guy thinks he has a chance with me

 

LOL. The OP from that thread got a LOT OF SUPPORT.

 

To me, that's just as bad if not worse than the OP's attitude.

 

Which one is worse?

 

1) This girl has a lack of self-esteem and is chasing me so I'm going to call her a loser.

 

2) These ugly guys who have absolutely no chance with me because I'm out of their league are hitting on me and bringing down my self-esteem.

 

Like I said, OP's attitude is not much different from a lot of people. Double standards...

[johan]

You would take advantage of someone like he is proposing to do?

 

I don't remember anyone in that thread, including the original poster, proposing she take advantage of anyone.

[PhillyDude]

You would take advantage of someone like he is proposing to do?

 

I don't remember anyone in that thread, including the original poster, proposing she take advantage of anyone.

 

Stop ignoring the point, the point is why was she supported and I;m not.

[PlumPrincess]

Here's one from a non-regular transient poster...

 

I dont want to come off as stuck up or a bitch its just that when unattractive Men approach me i feel like i cant be that attractive if an ugly guy thinks he has a chance with me

 

LOL. The OP from that thread got a LOT OF SUPPORT.

 

To me, that's just as bad if not worse than the OP's attitude.

 

Which one is worse?

 

1) This girl has a lack of self-esteem and is chasing me so I'm going to call her a loser.

 

2) These ugly guys who have absolutely no chance with me because I'm out of their league are hitting on me and bringing down my self-esteem.

 

Like I said, OP's attitude is not much different from a lot of people. Double standards...

She complained, she did not gloat.

[PlumPrincess]

Stop ignoring the point, the point is why was she supported and I;m not.

Because you are getting an ego stroke out of it.

[Ginger Grant]

Stop ignoring the point, the point is why was she supported and I;m not.

 

Because you are a predator and you seek to harm women that you perceive to have low self-esteem. Your ruthless demeanor goes way beyond ignoring a text, or being turned off by someone who tried to befriend you. Nobody in their right mind, would support your behavior. Here's the true litmus test, run your intentions by your mom and see what she thinks. Of course you wouldn't tell your mom, because your thoughts and actions towards are inappropriate.

[Star Gazer]

Here's one from a non-regular transient poster...

 

I dont want to come off as stuck up or a bitch its just that when unattractive Men approach me i feel like i cant be that attractive if an ugly guy thinks he has a chance with me

 

LOL. The OP from that thread got a LOT OF SUPPORT.

 

To me, that's just as bad if not worse than the OP's attitude.

 

Which one is worse?

 

1) This girl has a lack of self-esteem and is chasing me so I'm going to call her a loser.

 

2) These ugly guys who have absolutely no chance with me because I'm out of their league are hitting on me and bringing down my self-esteem.

 

Like I said, OP's attitude is not much different from a lot of people. Double standards...

 

I asked you for a link to a post where a woman GLOATED. The above does not meet my request.

 

There is a HUGE DIFFERENCE between the thread you're referencing, and this one. In that thread, she complained. She didn't GLOAT. In fact, she complained that men she's not interested in approaching her makes her feel BAD.

 

PillyDude GLOATED and actually said outright that he was going to use/take advantage of her.

 

Huge, huge, huge difference.

 

So again, please find a thread where a woman - nay, a woman OR a man, any person whatsoever, other than PD - complained and GLOATED and went so far as to say they'd take advantage of the situation by using the person.

 

I bet you good money you can't find one, because the behavior exemplified in this thread is abnormal and reprehensible.

[PhillyDude]

I asked you for a link to a post where a woman GLOATED. The above does not meet my request.

 

There is a HUGE DIFFERENCE between the thread you're referencing, and this one. In that thread, she complained. She didn't GLOAT. In fact, she complained that men she's not interested in approaching her makes her feel BAD.

 

PillyDude GLOATED and actually said outright that he was going to use/take advantage of her.

 

Huge, huge, huge difference.

 

So again, please find a thread where a woman - nay, a woman OR a man, any person whatsoever, other than PD - complained and GLOATED and went so far as to say they'd take advantage of the situation by using the person.

 

I bet you good money you can't find one, because the behavior exemplified in this thread is abnormal and reprehensible.

 

Well I feel the same way as that girl when i get a message from a ugly woman. I look at her face and say......."she really thinks she has a chance with me?

[Star Gazer]

Well I feel the same way as that girl when i get a message from a ugly woman. I look at her face and say......."she really thinks she has a chance with me?

 

Fine. Leave it at that, just like she did. Don't GLOAT about it and then think of ways to take advantage of her, as you did here. That's SICK.

[johan]

Stop ignoring the point, the point is why was she supported and I;m not.

 

You're proposing to use someone. She wasn't.

[jobaba]

 

There is a HUGE DIFFERENCE between the thread you're referencing, and this one. In that thread, she complained. She didn't GLOAT. In fact, she complained that men she's not interested in approaching her makes her feel BAD.

 

No she didn't.

 

She said "i feel like i cant be that attractive if an ugly guy thinks he has a chance with me"

 

Not paraphrased. Quoted ... verbatim. That's not arrogance? Gloating?

 

LOL, you think it's such a big difference.

 

Don't get me wrong. I think OP is a douche. You want to debate the fine comb differences between...

 

1) Using a woman for sex who is willingly throwing herself on you and berating her lack of self esteem

 

2) Berating and 'lashing out' at men you think are physically unattractive because you think you are better than them

 

...go right ahead. It wont be with me though.

Edited April 14, 2012 by jobaba

[jobaba]

Well I feel the same way as that girl when i get a message from a ugly woman. I look at her face and say......."she really thinks she has a chance with me?

 

Not surprising. People tend to think the same way on most issues...

[johan]

People who brag sometimes are supported and sometimes aren't. Rarely is a person who proposes to take advantage of someone given any encouragement. Discussing that other thread misses the point. Even pretending it's relevant is weak.

 

The question still remains. Why should anyone here offer you any support at all, regardless of what went on in any other thread on the board?

[William]

Someone upthread shared this gem:

 

When people don't respond, it's a sign they're not interested.

 

Probably something to think about, as posters contemplate their comments in this thread.

 

Even my venerable vacuum cleaner was chastened by the comments here. Let's empty the bag.