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I may suck at dating but I never did anything pathetic like this

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You women are making way too big a deal outta this. He just ignored her. He didn't abuse her. All he's doing is talking about how lame she is. Are you going to tell me women don't gloat about pathetic male behavior?:rolleyes:

 

He is looking to take advantage of her. She was nice to him, so in his feeble mind, that means she has low self-esteem. Most women intimidate him, and it makes him angry because he can't be with them. The man is a predator.

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PhillyDude Established Member

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He is looking to take advantage of her. She was nice to him, so in his feeble mind, that means she has low self-esteem. Most women intimidate him, and it makes him angry because he can't be with them. The man is a predator.

 

Are you on medication?

eleanorhurting Established Member

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Are you on medication?

 

do you have friends PD? Do you interact with people in real life? I just find it hard to believe that you can have relationships in real life with your horrible attitude.

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Mme. Chaucer Established Member

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You are nothing more than a spiteful predator.

 

Don't worry. He rarely, if ever, gets physically close to any woman.

 

OP - you think that her behavior is more "pathetic" than you paying a girl you're trying to date to sit on your face??

 

I guess it's a matter of opinion!

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Don't worry. He rarely, if ever, gets physically close to any woman.

 

OP - you think that her behavior is more "pathetic" than you paying a girl you're trying to date to sit on your face??

 

I guess it's a matter of opinion!

 

Men pay to be in a woman's presence all the time so I don't think there is much of a difference except I;m having a little more fun than other men

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do you have friends PD? Do you interact with people in real life? I just find it hard to believe that you can have relationships in real life with your horrible attitude.

 

How did you get I don't have any friends because I asked someone a question on a message board?

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Men pay to be in a woman's presence all the time so I don't think there is much of a difference except I;m having a little more fun than other men

 

But it still ranks much higher on the scale of pathetic behavior than hers does. Really.

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Men pay to be in a woman's presence all the time so I don't think there is much of a difference except I;m having a little more fun than other men

 

he has to has to be a troll.

 

I feel bad for his parents. It would be horrible to have raised a child and have them turn out such an a-hole and loser in life.

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Mme. Chaucer Established Member

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I don't think he's for real either, but I have participated anyway! Slap me!

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PhillyDude Established Member

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So why is it ok for a man to treat a woman to dinner and pay for the entire date but it's not ok for a man to pay a woman to come to his place and have dinner there and some playfulness?

 

I will never understand why so many woman have a issue with a man spending HIS MONEY on a woman for sexual fun. Is he hurting anyone?

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You took the cowards way out yet SHE'S the pathetic one?

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So why is it ok for a man to treat a woman to dinner and pay for the entire date but it's not ok for a man to pay a woman to come to his place and have dinner there and some playfulness?

 

I will never understand why so many woman have a issue with a man spending HIS MONEY on a woman for sexual fun. Is he hurting anyone?

 

I do think it's okay, and I don't have an issue with it. I think it's pathetic to equate paying sex workers for services, and dating. But guys who do it are supporting a whole segment of the economy, and there are women who are up for it, so who am I to complain. As long as the sex workers are doing it 100% of their own free will and weren't coerced into it as child runaways or something like that.

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He's not obligated to respond to her texts. And he can gloat if he wants. Women gloat all the time. How many women gloat, "Women are catty toward me because of my confidence and my looks"?

 

Answer your own question. How many? I can't think of any posts like that. There was the thread about the article written by one woman, and it seems like she was almost universally slammed for her attitude. I think you're trying to highlight some kind of double standard, but I don't think there is one. Men and women both seem to be expected to treat people with respect.

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You women are making way too big a deal outta this. He just ignored her. He didn't abuse her. All he's doing is talking about how lame she is. Are you going to tell me women don't gloat about pathetic male behavior?:rolleyes:

 

He also said he was planning to go ahead and take advantage of her.

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He also said he was planning to go ahead and take advantage of her.

 

So if a woman is try to FORCE the A$$ on a guy what is he supposed to do turn it down?-lol I'm a straight guy and if I see a opportunity to have some sexual fun I;m going to do it. Especially when it's be forced on me.

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How did you get I don't have any friends because I asked someone a question on a message board?

 

The answer is simple, a person who had positive roles models in their life, along with close friends who provided honest feedback, would not think and behave the way you do. The sad part is, you think you are having fun. There is nothing fun about having distorted views of women, and dysfunctional relationships.

 

Why are you looking for a date, when you should be looking for a job? Aren't you unemployed?

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PhillyDude Established Member

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The answer is simple, a person who had positive roles models in their life, along with close friends who provided honest feedback, would not think and behave the way you do. The sad part is, you think you are having fun. There is nothing fun about having distorted views of women, and dysfunctional relationships.

 

Why are you looking for a date, when you should be looking for a job? Aren't you unemployed?

 

How bout you come to philly and sit on my ,,,,,,,, and let's see how that works out. And my job is to find a woman to support me so go away

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So if a woman is try to FORCE the A$$ on a guy what is he supposed to do turn it down?-lol I'm a straight guy and if I see a opportunity to have some sexual fun I;m going to do it. Especially when it's be forced on me.

 

You've concluded that she's pathetic and has low self-esteem. First of all, how could you be even pretend to be attracted to someone you think of like that? Second of all, when it's all over, she's likely to feel even worse about herself. You don't seem to care about that, as long as you can get your ten minutes of satisfaction, after which I think you'd say she has to leave pretty much right away.

 

You have to recognize what it is that people find objectionable. First, you seem to be ok with adding another bad experience to her life. Second, if she is vulnerable like that, there are only so many bad experiences she or anyone can endure before they become permanently affected to the extent that they give up on certain dreams.

 

You're proposing to kick someone who is down, because you think being pathetic is such a bad thing. Even if she is pathetic, she is still a human. And you don't willingly hurt people like that very much and continue to be a human yourself.

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Ginger Grant Member

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How bout you come to philly and sit on my ,,,,,,,, and let's see how that works out. And my job is to find a woman to support me so go away

 

That last sentence doesn't make sense. How can you find a woman to support you, when you have to pay for their company?

 

Guys always look sexier with a job, but in your case it wouldn't make much of a difference. :p

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C'mon people, clearly this "woman" was actually just a bot hoping to scam money out of PhillyDude. Hence the repeated calls/texts/"flirts" online.

 

It's the only answer that makes any sense.

Isn't it weird how he gets so many messages (compared with other posters here) despite being such a douche? Since he is clearly not attracting women because of his charm or wit, he must be really good-looking. Or tall. Or he posted a picture of his big thingie. Is it possible that women are really that stupid? :confused:

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Isn't it weird how he gets so many messages (compared with other posters here) despite being such a douche? Since he is clearly not attracting women because of his charm or wit, he must be really good-looking. Or tall. Or he posted a picture of his big thingie. Is it possible that women are really that stupid? :confused:

 

I'm 6'5 so combine that with my handsome face and that's why I get messages a lot. Many of them unwanted messages and the messages below are the worst ones

 

A message from a woman who is..."Old, Fat, Ugly, and Live on Westcoast"

 

LOL

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Isn't it weird how he gets so many messages (compared with other posters here) despite being such a douche? Since he is clearly not attracting women because of his charm or wit, he must be really good-looking. Or tall. Or he posted a picture of his big thingie. Is it possible that women are really that stupid? :confused:

 

They're not stupid. They're allured by the outside, but quickly run when they see what's on the inside.

 

He has to come here to gloat about the attention he gets (even unwanted), because he's unable to get attention from the women he does want, because quality women really don't want anything to do with someone with this attitude. :(

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He has to come here to gloat about the attention he gets (even unwanted), because he's unable to get attention from the women he does want, because quality women really don't want anything to do with someone with this attitude. :(

 

There's many women here who have gloated here about the undesirable men they get attention from and how they should go about dumping them.

 

There's also women who use men emotionally without giving it too much of a second thought. Same or worse as men using women for sex.

 

Not that I agree with OP's attitude, but it's the same as many other people...

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There's many women here who have gloated here about the undesirable men they get attention from and how they should go about dumping them.

 

Find one, please, with a link. Thanks.

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Personally PhillyDude if I were in your situation and a girl was trying to get my attention I'd feel grateful and maybe even more attracted as I know for certain that she actually likes me, and not call her pathetic, use her, and put her down such behavior is basically just evil. I mean really what is the point of that, it doesn't sound constructive at all? Also if you are going to be like that what makes you think you deserve differently? Also if this woman is so "pathetic" why are you going online to talk to a bunch of random strangers about someone else's patheticness? Isn't that a bit pathetic in itself that you have to gloat about the failures of others to feel good about yourself?

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