I may suck at dating but I never did anything pathetic like this

[PhillyDude]

I had a 1st conversation with this woman off a dating site and then decided she was really someone I wanted to meet. So I just started ignoring her texts and calls and figured she would get the hint.

 

Then all of a sudden she goes online and sends me a message saying,,,"what happened to you?"

 

I ignored that message and figured she would go away. Then five days later she sends me a FLIRT???-LOL After I have ignored text messages and phone calls and a message on the site.

 

Is her behavior the true definition of "Down and out"?-lol Damm i mean how pathetic can a woman be? Now part of me wants to call her back so I can be involved in safe adult fun. lol

 

This is how you set up a date with a girl like this

 

"Hey I was thinking we can meet at a cafe and talk and get to know each other. But this cafe is kind of different because it's out of coffee supply and located inside my apartment. Sp how bout some lemonade instead?

 

LOL.

[Woggle]

She is interested because you are ignoring her. You should know these things after all those dates.

[Star Gazer]

Wow.

 

[PhillyDude]

She is interested because you are ignoring her. You should know these things after all those dates.

 

She has low self-esteem and no options which is something Im about to take advantage of

[Imajerk17]

I had a 1st conversation with this woman off a dating site and then decided she was really someone I wanted to meet. So I just started ignoring her texts and calls and figured she would get the hint.

 

Then all of a sudden she goes online and sends me a message saying,,,"what happened to you?"

 

I ignored that message and figured she would go away. Then five days later she sends me a FLIRT???-LOL After I have ignored text messages and phone calls and a message on the site.

 

Is her behavior the true definition of "Down and out"?-lol Damm i mean how pathetic can a woman be? Now part of me wants to call her back so I can be involved in safe adult fun. lol

 

This is how you set up a date with a girl like this

 

"Hey I was thinking we can meet at a cafe and talk and get to know each other. But this cafe is kind of different because it's out of coffee supply and located inside my apartment. Sp how bout some lemonade instead?

 

LOL.

 

You are a prick.

 

There are a few guys on here who don't do well with women whom I hope "get it" and stop whining and start going after things, because deep down they seem like a genuinely good person. I don't wish you success.

 

FWIW, the thing to do is to let them know kindly that you aren't interested anymore.

[Disenchantedly Yours]

How about just saying, "I'm sorry, I'm no longer interested." Instead of clearly ignoring her then coming to a message board to put her down misogonistically when you clearly see she is at least trying to spark up something with you.

 

But I guess if you had done that, you wouldn't have had a story to share where you protray yourself as some sexy man beast that "plays" women.

[PhillyDude]

In a way I'm kind of flattered because she looks decent enough to have TONS of men sending her messages and she was just at a club last week but for some reason is stuck on me. I wonder why?

[Disenchantedly Yours]

Because you're a sexy man beast stud that plays women Super Sexy Pumpkin Head.

[CarrieT]

You are a prick.

Seconded.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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[Badsingularity]

Because you're a sexy man beast stud that plays women Super Sexy Pumpkin Head.

 

Lol.

 

PD

 

Sounds like your almost trying to brag and at the same time make your self feel like a big man by putting someone else down.

[SmileFace]

with a girl like this

 

"Hey I was thinking we can meet at a cafe and talk and get to know each other. But this cafe is kind of different because it's out of coffee supply and located inside my apartment. Sp how bout some lemonade instead?

 

LOL.

 

so you are going to pee on her? Wtf is going on here ?

[Disenchantedly Yours]

This is the correct answer.

 

Now take advantage of it. I am not saying marry the chic or start a relationship. And if people are calling you a prick you are doing something right.

 

That's true. When men act in their own personal self interests to degrade, humilate, put-down and verbally abuse women...such as calling a woman pathetic, then use them as something to masturbate into, all because she was interested in him....that man is doing something right!

 

Oh I just thought of this....could PhillyDude be so filled with self loathing that when a woman is interested in him he isn't interested in her for the fact that she has the wrong judgement to be interested in him? Thoughts to chew on!

[PhillyDude]

so you are going to pee on her? Wtf is going on here ?

 

 

 

NO NASTY. That's all I drink besides water because of my arthritis

[Necris]

That's true. When men act in their own personal self interests to degrade, humilate, put-down and verbally abuse women...such as calling a woman pathetic, then use them as something to masturbate into, all because she was interested in him....that man is doing something right!

 

Oh I just thought of this....could PhillyDude be so filled with self loathing that when a woman is interested in him he isn't interested in her for the fact that she has the wrong judgement to be interested in him? Thoughts to chew on!

 

But its attitudes and behaviors like PhillyDude's that get women it seems being nice and all just isn't attractive.

[SmileFace]

NO NASTY. That's all I drink besides water because of my arthritis

 

Yes I am the nasty one.

I wasn't serious but anywho.

[Disenchantedly Yours]

But its attitudes and behaviors like PhillyDude's that get women it seems being nice and all just isn't attractive.

 

Here is the golden rule to succeed with HEALTHY women. Yes, there are women that unfortunetly go to guys that treat them poorly...repeatedly. But for healthy minded women, women don't want jerks and they don't want "nice". They want GOOD men. How do you be a good man? You cultivate who you are and who you want to be. You stand by what you believe. You treat people with respect without being their doormat. .....the list goes on. This is the thing that a lot of guys don't get. Healthy women want good men. They don't want jerks and they don't want "nice" guys.

[Disenchantedly Yours]

Not his problem.

 

Actually it is if it's a case of self loathing LOL. Re-read my comment

[Imajerk17]

There is just no way you can be deserving of a great person if you don't treat other people you come in contact with, with some respect.

 

I made this gender-neutral because it holds for both men and women.

 

PD, you couldn't have sent them an email or a text letting them know you don't think it is going to be a match? Would have taken you less time than it did to come on here and gloat.

[PhillyDude]

There is just no way you can be deserving of a great person if you don't treat other people you come in contact with, with some respect.

 

I made this gender-neutral because it holds for both men and women.

 

PD, you couldn't have sent them an email or a text letting them know you don't think it is going to be a match? Would have taken you less time than it did to come on here and gloat.

 

Women want men to take the hint so why can't women take the hint? If a guy was doing the same thing she was doing he would be labled a creepy stalker.

 

 

I had a woman who stopped taking my calls but I didn't go back online and send a message and say.."what happened to you?"

[RachR]

Here is the golden rule to succeed with HEALTHY women. Yes, there are women that unfortunetly go to guys that treat them poorly...repeatedly. But for healthy minded women, women don't want jerks and they don't want "nice". They want GOOD men. How do you be a good man? You cultivate who you are and who you want to be. You stand by what you believe. You treat people with respect without being their doormat. .....the list goes on. This is the thing that a lot of guys don't get. Healthy women want good men. They don't want jerks and they don't want "nice" guys.

 

Hear hear!

[USMCHokie]

I had a 1st conversation with this woman off a dating site and then decided she was really someone I wanted to meet. So I just started ignoring her texts and calls and figured she would get the hint.

 

Wait, so you always start ignoring women that you really want to meet...?

[NXS]

PD, given your other threads about your expectations re setting up dates and phone calls, I'm curious how you're planning on setting this one up?

[Oxy Moronovich]

In a way I'm kind of flattered because she looks decent enough to have TONS of men sending her messages and she was just at a club last week but for some reason is stuck on me. I wonder why?

You need to move outta, Philly.

There is just no way you can be deserving of a great person if you don't treat other people you come in contact with, with some respect.

 

I made this gender-neutral because it holds for both men and women.

 

PD, you couldn't have sent them an email or a text letting them know you don't think it is going to be a match? Would have taken you less time than it did to come on here and gloat.

C'mon jerk, plenty--and I mean PLENTY--of women on this forum alone openly talk about how they ignore men and don't respond. NO ONE BATS AN EYE. But the moment a guy ignores a woman HE'S SATAN!

 

He doesn't deserve to be in a healthy relationship with a good person because he doesn't respect other people.

 

The vast majority of women have done what the OP is doing: ignoring men who show interest and not responding to texts. That must mean the vast majority of women do not deserve relationships.

[PhillyDude]

Wait, so you always start ignoring women that you really want to meet...?

 

I meant to say someone I didn't want to meet

[PhillyDude]

You need to move outta, Philly.

 

C'mon jerk, plenty--and I mean PLENTY--of women on this forum alone openly talk about how they ignore men and don't respond. NO ONE BATS AN EYE. But the moment a guy ignores a woman HE'S SATAN!

 

He doesn't deserve to be in a healthy relationship with a good person because he doesn't respect other people.

 

The vast majority of women have done what the OP is doing: ignoring men who show interest and not responding to texts. That must mean the vast majority of women do not deserve relationships.

 

 

Not to mention that 2 women just did it to me in the past 3 weeks. lol