alicia2601 Posted June 17, 2004 Posted June 17, 2004 My b/f don't look at porn, but he looks at girls on the internet dressed rather provocatively. He says he does it b/c it's a guy thing and he uses it as a "masturbation tool" when i'm not around. We don't live together, and he said that we DO actually get a place together, that there would be no need to do it. But in the process, I somehow feel threatened b/c i've seen these girls he looks at, and their sooo slutty lookin! I'm nothin like them....so I guess him doin that has nothin to do w/ me??? I dont know. He said their just pictures, and after he looks at 'em he forgets all about what he had even looked at. Is this makin any sense? Am I freakin out over nothin? I have a feeling that if a guy response to this, he'll tell me that i AM in fact freakin out over nothin. lol Thanks for hearing me out
Fayebelle Posted June 17, 2004 Posted June 17, 2004 I have a lot of guy friends and very honest BF (now and past) - it seems that when men masturbate everyone from Pam Anderson to their 6th grade teacher gets involved. Do you think Pam has waited her whole life for your BF to fantasize about her? Do you really think he has a chance w/her now that he has? HELL NO! Those pics are just a tool and even if they don't disappear once you live tog they still won't be any competition. If you find them offensive you have every right to ask him to keep them private-but Never consider them a threat to his desire for you.
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