SilverBlueAndGold Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 Thanks everyone for the feedback... This is a new thing that I started doing only because he was lying to me about things, and he had me curious as far as what else he was hiding. I've been resisting the urge to look, then again the relationship has been quiet on the homefront since this post. I just need to trust him again but I know it's not going to be easy. I really dont think he's cheating, I just dont want it to end up that way (us be mad at each other, he seeks comfort in the girl we'll call Sally), let alone that girl I mentioned is a friend of both of us. As far as him reading my stuff, I have nothing to hide, my phone and fb are open/around all the time. The issue here is not looking at texts. It's that he is lying to you. Start there, everything else is incidental.
Beetleguise Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 I've always believed, and still do, that it is NOT okay & that it's a violation of privacy. I also agree with; GorillaTheater If you're just dating, and you trust him this little, my advice is to move on. But I have to add; I've recently read some compelling information that suggests what is on the net is open to the public. Although I.. or someone should start a separate thread on this. Violation of privacy? If you share your life, house, finances and whatever else with somebody for 7 years.. why an earth would either of you have or need privacy? Utter rubbish. 1
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