macardent Posted April 13, 2012 Posted April 13, 2012 (edited) So my ex girlfriend who i called a slut.. Tells me she doesnt wana talk to me and said she hates me as a person.. I do hate my self for calling her a slut and bringing her past into the arguement when she broke up with me.I appologized and i know its not easy fr her to frget it.. Now she says she doesnt want me to call her. She doesnt wana know me.. And keeps insulting me.. I didnt think it was about my ego but i kept telling her that i love her.. She just trying to hurt my ego..i love her dearly.. I even said i'll come back and marry her in two years she said no thanks.. I wont talk to her ever again.. But what do u guys think? Whats going on n her head? Will she ever take the initiative to talk to me? I think her older sister is guiding her how to deal with the situation.. And i have no one Edited April 13, 2012 by macardent
BewitchedandBothered Posted April 13, 2012 Posted April 13, 2012 I don't blame her; you're worried about your ego; you hurt hers. 4
EgoJoe Posted April 14, 2012 Posted April 14, 2012 So my ex girlfriend who i called a slut.. Tells me she doesnt wana talk to me and said she hates me as a person.. I do hate my self for calling her a slut and bringing her past into the arguement when she broke up with me.I appologized and i know its not easy fr her to frget it.. Now she says she doesnt want me to call her. She doesnt wana know me.. And keeps insulting me.. I didnt think it was about my ego but i kept telling her that i love her.. She just trying to hurt my ego..i love her dearly.. I even said i'll come back and marry her in two years she said no thanks.. I wont talk to her ever again.. But what do u guys think? Whats going on n her head? Will she ever take the initiative to talk to me? I think her older sister is guiding her how to deal with the situation.. And i have no one Just ignore her. 2
Author macardent Posted April 14, 2012 Author Posted April 14, 2012 Is there anything i can do make thungs better? I know i cant contact her since she told me not to and i will respect that.. I really do love her.. I listen to a song that we danced on once and i miss her .. I see a good weather outside i want to take her to the beach since i promised her that..
Author macardent Posted April 14, 2012 Author Posted April 14, 2012 Thank you... Wish she realizes i truly love her
Frank13 Posted April 14, 2012 Posted April 14, 2012 Thank you... Wish she realizes i truly love her When you love someone and they don't love you back, your love for them means absolutely nothing to them. 3
CaliBabe Posted April 14, 2012 Posted April 14, 2012 You really can't control the situation at this point, but what you can control is YOU. I would recommend getting yourself in the best physical and mental shape as ever. Do things that make you happy and take up some new hobbies. Give her some time and see how she is feeling in a couple weeks. 1
Fitz Posted April 14, 2012 Posted April 14, 2012 When you love someone and they don't love you back, your love for them means absolutely nothing to them. Yep! This exactly.
wilsonx Posted April 14, 2012 Posted April 14, 2012 Really? You called her a slut, if you didnt mean it it wouldnt have come out of your mouth. No take backs. 2
BewitchedandBothered Posted April 14, 2012 Posted April 14, 2012 Really? You called her a slut, if you didnt mean it it wouldnt have come out of your mouth. No take backs. Name calling is a form of abuse. She won't easily forget being called that awful name; how can she trust you won't hurl insults at her again? You judge her by her past; she doesn't live there anymore. Why would you call her those kinds of derogatory names?? 1
HollyBolly Posted April 14, 2012 Posted April 14, 2012 So my ex girlfriend who i called a slut.. Tells me she doesnt wana talk to me and said she hates me as a person.. I do hate my self for calling her a slut and bringing her past into the arguement when she broke up with me.I appologized and i know its not easy fr her to frget it.. Now she says she doesnt want me to call her. She doesnt wana know me.. And keeps insulting me.. I didnt think it was about my ego but i kept telling her that i love her.. She just trying to hurt my ego..i love her dearly.. I even said i'll come back and marry her in two years she said no thanks.. I wont talk to her ever again.. But what do u guys think? Whats going on n her head? Will she ever take the initiative to talk to me? I think her older sister is guiding her how to deal with the situation.. And i have no one You called her a slut. Why did you do that? IS she a slut? If she is, you have nothing to lose by moving on. If she isn't, you ****ed up. Either way, you did what you had to do. Now, live with the consequences. 1
rickys Posted April 14, 2012 Posted April 14, 2012 You love her.. That's good but it would be better if she also loves you... She don't.. Possible because you hurt her ego. So, its better for you to try once, if she doesn't want to solve the issues then you must move on and let her do so.....
Author macardent Posted April 14, 2012 Author Posted April 14, 2012 Thsanks for the input guys. If it was really about my ego I wouldn't beg her to come back and keep my arrogance. I am hurt that she started playing thses games and acting like a stranger. I am a very proud guy and no one opinions about me could ever hurt my ego, I know who I am and have enough self confidence. I am 22yrs old and she is only 20 I hope life brings us back together one day I will never contact her but what if she contacts me? How should I respond? I don't want to look needy anymore but at the same time do not want to shut the doors for her.
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