madhat Posted April 13, 2012 Posted April 13, 2012 (edited) I am 19 and my girlfriend is 18. We have been together for 2 years. We had a great time in our relationship until 4 or 5 months in. I became complacent and stopped paying attention to her, and stopped being exciting. She was going to break up with me but I convinced her not to. This happened 7 months later at christmas. And the same times the next year. She has been feeling very bad lately. This feeling comes and goes. She tells me she gets a bad feeling of anxiety and it makes her feel like she doesnt love me, care, or want to be with me. She started getting this feeling last december. I felt this way when i was with a different girl, but i had a horrible relationship with her. We didnt talk, hang out, or even know much about each other. We only txt. My girlfriend and I dont txt much now. We kind of did when we got together. I know she still loves me. I dont have a gut feeling that she doesnt. She still calls me and talks to me most of the day. She still shows signs of interest and likes to cuddle and kiss me. She doesnt know why she gets this feeling but its getting very bad, and she doesnt know how to get rid of it. I think I am the cause and I can fix it because I felt this way when I was with that other girl and we didnt do much in the relationship so I think that could be a cause. Also spending too much time and not having much fun. I also havent really told her how and why I love her much. She says she is getting bored of me. I also was acting a bit feminine for a while. What can I do to fix this? And what can I do right now to help her feel better? Edited April 13, 2012 by madhat
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