Hunter38 Posted April 13, 2012 Posted April 13, 2012 I've decided to ask her out tomorrow. She is an amazingly beautiful girl that works at my local petrol/gas station. I've liked her since she started working there about 6 weeks ago and have always suspected she likes me. However a couple of days ago I found out from her co workers that she does really like me. Can't believe that she finds me attractive!! She is one of the nicest, prettiest girls I've ever met! Can't wait to ask her out now! So any last tips or encouragement? Thanks everyone
Oxy Moronovich Posted April 13, 2012 Posted April 13, 2012 I noticed a pattern: dudes who want to ask out women always say stuff like, "She's the hottest, most intelligent, most caring woman I've ever met." How do dudes know so much about a woman you're not even dating? And another thing, these guys almost never get the women. My advice: stop putting women on a pedestal. Treat her like any chick. You don't even know her. Putting her on a pedestal will only make you blind to her faults and make a breakup harder to deal with. 4
jobaba Posted April 13, 2012 Posted April 13, 2012 I've decided to ask her out tomorrow. She is an amazingly beautiful girl that works at my local petrol/gas station. I've liked her since she started working there about 6 weeks ago and have always suspected she likes me. However a couple of days ago I found out from her co workers that she does really like me. Can't believe that she finds me attractive!! She is one of the nicest, prettiest girls I've ever met! Can't wait to ask her out now! So any last tips or encouragement? Thanks everyone OMFG dude. You're killing me. She's a cute girl who works at a gas station. Beyond that, you know nothing. Treat her as that, and you'll be 10x more likely to succeed. 1
casanovadude81 Posted April 13, 2012 Posted April 13, 2012 I’d like to echo the advice already given. She’s just a girl you find pretty beyond that don’t get carried away. Really its great to get excited about a girl because that will motivate you to do something about it. What I see here is you not making a move on a girl you liked because you built her up to being out of your league or something. Did you really have to wait for her coworkers to give you the green light alls right to ask her out? Now you’re on here asking for last tips? Biggest tip I can give you is realize you get what you put in. Treat her like a person who you need to get to know and who you want sexual pleasure from and those are the things you’ll get. Treat her like she’s the greatest with out even knowing her and that’s what you’ll get. Now go have brilliant time with her. Don’t be shy. Sounds like you think it’s a sure thing so enjoy.
somedude81 Posted April 13, 2012 Posted April 13, 2012 Tips? Have somebody else in mind that you want to ask out after she rejects you. 1
dasein Posted April 13, 2012 Posted April 13, 2012 Great advice already given. If this one doesn't work out, next time meet three you'd like to take out and ask them all out within a short timeframe. If all three say no, find three more and ask them. If you take nothing else from this thread and forum, take that going around looking for one girl to focus on and working up to asking her out is not the way to success for guys dating. Think of it as a bucket, keep 3-5 in it at all times. When one falls by the wayside, add another. It's hard at first, but becomes easy fast. You will never again feel that "no control" feeling when dealing with women. Women are most attracted to men who have options and control in their lives, and send off that "you aren't that important to me until you prove yourself worthy" vibe. Good luck!
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