casper12 Posted April 13, 2012 Posted April 13, 2012 She has told me that she ****en loves me so much, but she cant trust me, because she thinks that if she gives herself to me i will get board of her within the year and or be promiscuious! Im starting to think if what she is saying here is actually about her... because she has had ex's in her life that have been untrustworthy however her and her most recent ex had been unfaithful throughout their time togeather- so is it that she is worried about herself and feels she cant be trusted? I would never have allowed myself to develop feelings this strong if i knew their was even the slightest chance of me getting bored and becoming promicuious, i could never hurt her or myself like that, i just couldnt set her or myself up like that to fail and experience the excruciating prolonged pain of heartbreak, like what i felt in my last break up- only this one will be worse as the connection chemistry and compatability have all been sitting nicely ontop of a healthie friendship, it really hurts to be in love with her and have her tell me she dosent fully trust me when i have givin her no reason to not to... i dont want anyone else but her and have been loyal and devoted to her and will remain that way, as one day id like to marry her
Philosoraptor Posted April 13, 2012 Posted April 13, 2012 It doesn't sound like she is over the hurt and pain from her past, therefore was unable to give you a clean slate. You are paying for wrongs that someone else did to her. If you care about her then I'd give it one try and lay it all on the table. That you are not the person from her past that hurt her and that you are not willing to be blamed for someone else's mistakes.
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