fluffybunny0 Posted April 13, 2012 Posted April 13, 2012 Okay I put this on another forum but this one has more people on it haha. Met a pretty good looking guy at a club 5 months ago. I was a bit drunk so fairly forward for me (ie: didn’t play hard to get!) and we ended up ‘taking a walk’ and going back to his place so I could use his bathroom (classy). We hadn’t even kissed at that stage but when I finished with the bathroom he started walking upstairs to his bedroom and got out some PJs etc for me (cute). I said to him “I want to clean my teeth cos I might want to kiss you” at which point he looked surprised and then kissed me. We ended up fooling around that night. In the morning I was shy and left without saying goodbye or leaving a number which I then realised looked like I meant it to be a one night stand. So I broke my rule and friended him on facebook, once he accepted I sent a message apologising for leaving and being pretty casual/friendly. Three days later he wrote back and we chatted for a few hours We kept chatting and he was a bit flirty which I didn’t hugely respond to cos I was feeling a bit slutty and wanted him to ask me out for a drink or something at least. 10 days after ‘the night’ he said goodnight on chat and then came back 10 minutes later and said ‘catch up soon?’. I said sure, he suggested dinner, I said when I was available and he said ‘cool let you know’. I thought the way he asked (ie: going away and then coming back) was weird – he seems shy The next day he posted on facebook that he had a surprise visit to LA. So I messaged and said ‘have fun, catch up when you get back’. He messaged me once when he was in LA. All this time I’ve never initiated any messaging except that once; I’ve only responded when he got in touch So meanwhile in LA he friends about 5 hot, blonde, big-boobed girls every day (no exaggeration; 3 week trip = 75 new friends). And when he came back he didn’t get in touch. So I left it, cos he obviously found someone else. I met someone else I was with for a few weeks etc Then the guy I was with left to go back overseas and a week later, he messages me again. I waited 5 days to respond and was just friendly/funny not mentioning his complete incognito a few months before. We ended up at the same club we met at last weekend; we chatted but I was pretty casual. He had his crew around and I had other guys I was talking to but I felt like he knew where I was all night. As I was leaving (literally at the door) he touched me on the shoulder just as I got his message saying ‘where’d you go?” He said he wanted to catch up again suggesting dinner ‘or a drink’. I said “well you’ve got my details Outside the club I was talking to some other guys, he came out, apparently he knew them and we all ended up going to another club where he paid for me and bought me drinks and talked the two of us on a couch with his arm around my shoulders for 2 hours! He asked why I never messaged him and asked how he was. I responded saying he just went incognito for 3 months to which he replied “Oh did I?” (pft) He put me in a cab at 5am and then sent a message ‘u r so hot " (okay I’m putting the complete unoriginality down to the amount of alcohol we had consumed). I responded saying “awww thanx, having flashbacks’ to which he responded saying ‘me too, from last time you stayed, maybe you could come stay at mine some night’. I responded saying ‘that’d be nice, maybe we could do dinner first so I don’t feel like a complete hussy ’ and gave him my mobile number. And that’s it. That was 7 days ago. He hasn’t replied! I can’t work out what’s going on; this is the second time he’s suggested catching up and then not actually followed up with a date. Was the 'hussy' joke that bad The important thing to note here is, we’re both moving overseas in 8 weeks. He’s going to LA and I’m going to Europe. For good. So whatever it is, we both know it’s not ‘a big deal’, just some fun until we go. Am I being unreasonable to expect he would want to take me for a drink or something as a follow up rather than me just driving on over to his apartment? Is he Shy or is he a Player?
Jasra Posted April 13, 2012 Posted April 13, 2012 Moving in two months ? Just go for the sex. Why look for anything meaningful ?Two months will be gone in the blink of an eye.
magicfinger Posted April 13, 2012 Posted April 13, 2012 I would say he is bit shy. If you start a bit he will finish it off...
Emilia Posted April 13, 2012 Posted April 13, 2012 I say he's a player. don't you EVER contact me over private message and call me names! How dare you. I'll report you if you do it one more time In fact have just reported you for harassment.
Oxy Moronovich Posted April 13, 2012 Posted April 13, 2012 I just reported your posts where you call people ignorant and stupid. Have a nice day.
Author fluffybunny0 Posted April 13, 2012 Author Posted April 13, 2012 Wow 50/50 on player vs shy...welcome to my world!! Guys say player, girls say shy??? To booty call or not to booty call?
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