Mustang07 Posted April 13, 2012 Posted April 13, 2012 ok so my ex and i broke up of 3 years about 2 months ago due to some trust issues, she broke up with me, never cheated, just lied about stupid **** here and there, contacted an ex and said some things that shouldnt have been said, and talked to a girl i had a thing for in high school, but she called cause she was having having problems in her life, and knew id listen...Anyways, we broke the day after valentines day, but she still wanted to talk and hang ou, i was going against it a bit but after a couple days of hanging with her girlfriend(i knew she was, not a guy), she decided to not talk and not to see me anymore..about 2 weeks went by of no talking or anything, during that 2 weeks she found out about that ex i mentioned above from that girl herself..found out we broke up and told her what i did, but ****ed up thing is, she was going a long with it, so my recent ex contacted me saying i digust her and yada yada yada. But after everything cooled down during the 2 weeks she is blowing my phone up, i wasnt responding at all, but eventually just answred, she was asking what i was doing that weekend and she wanted to come over sunday to talk and hangout. Later on that night(it was a thursday) we actually met up at Mcdonalds for an hour, like nothing ever happend, we kissed hugged laughed and i held her like nothing happned. So that sunday comes around and she comes over, she brought over lunch, went to my room talked for a while about everything, then had fantastic sex for an hour She left about an hour later and continues to txt me saying she wishes she stayed for dinner and to wactch a movie with me and talk more, but after that we didnt talk till the next night..and everything she told me on sunday, was different monday night, really messed with my head, we both ended it again and didnt talk for a couple weeks, then only to come and find out shes seeing someone, and i figured out who it was, its a 34 year old guy, shes 19 BTW, claims hes a nice guy and that she likes him, so i basiclly said w.e have fun with that. Since then she has now contacting me 4 times just to say Hi and what not, but this last time, this past tuseday, i asked her why are you calling me, she tells me just to hear my voice, and that she misses me like crazy, thinks about me a lot. We talked for like 45 minutes too, just about everything again, and again later on that night we txted and of course she changed what she was saying to me earlier that day, saying it was mistake to call and i shouldnt have, i only wanna be with one guy and that im happy and all this other crap, but i have my ways with her and was making her weak at the same time, i knew she was crying as well But idk shes very confussed on what she wants, at one point she said she doesnt know why she is seeing this guy, and that if she doesnt want me back someday she will regret it, but right now we arnt talking again, and im keeping it that from now on we had a very good relationship, everything about us fit perfectly, we had ups and downs but always loved and cared about one another very much in the end, we did everything for each other, but i did some things to make her this way but my main thing i want to say, is whats up with her new guy?, hes 34 just broke up with his girl, might have a kid with her, i know he has lied to her already, im beggining to think its a rebound, for both of them but idk, really need some thoughts on all this, cause i cant figure it out and dont know whats going to come in the future with us, she keeps contacting me saying she misses me, but then says shes happy with her new guy, will her new guy and her last considering the situation?, srry if i rambled on but i just need some more advice
Philosoraptor Posted April 13, 2012 Posted April 13, 2012 The thing is knowing anything about her life right now is only going to hurt you. Shut down all communication and work on healing inside. Will things work on with this new guy? I dunno, but she's not with you so who cares. Work on yourself and work on healing. This starts with not making contact with her. She has someone else so it's not your job to be her emotional blanket. 1
Author Mustang07 Posted April 14, 2012 Author Posted April 14, 2012 The thing is knowing anything about her life right now is only going to hurt you. Shut down all communication and work on healing inside. Will things work on with this new guy? I dunno, but she's not with you so who cares. Work on yourself and work on healing. This starts with not making contact with her. She is withsomeone else so it's not your job to be her emotional blanket. That is well put...i know how she keeps contacting me...telling me she misses like crazy..thinks about me all the time..still sleeps with my pilows..and actually tells me she doesn't know how shes stayed away from me so long...that she is eventually gunna want me back...but it needs to take a little while..at least 6 months...but if i find someone better...sorry...her loss When you think ita greener on the other side...9 times outta 10 its not
goldengirl11 Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 That is well put...i know how she keeps contacting me...telling me she misses like crazy..thinks about me all the time..still sleeps with my pilows..and actually tells me she doesn't know how shes stayed away from me so long...that she is eventually gunna want me back...but it needs to take a little while..at least 6 months...but if i find someone better...sorry...her loss When you think ita greener on the other side...9 times outta 10 its not Just out of curiosity, what would make someone better?
Author Mustang07 Posted April 16, 2012 Author Posted April 16, 2012 Just out of curiosity, what would make someone better? Someone to look at all good i do...look beyond the mistakes ive made in the past...and the mistakes i may make in the future..and not leave for some other guy 3 weeks after a break up...after being in an awsome relationship
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