Bucky Badger Posted April 13, 2012 Posted April 13, 2012 There is this girl I go to college with who I am very interested in. I am in a fraternity, and I met her this past fall in some Greek activities, and since then, whenever we see each other we always make small talk and she always greets me. I have a spring formal coming up in 2 days, and a few weeks ago, she told me how her formal went really crappy because her date was making out with another girl the whole time. I decided to ask her to my formal and she said she would love to go. Since then, she has texted me first twice, and we have casual conversations together. Last Saturday, we had a casual dinner together that lasted for over an hour and we just talked. It was great! We have some mutual friends, and she has told them that I am a "super cool guy" and that I am a "really nice guy." I really like her, but I have a feeling that I am just in the friend zone right now. She did text me first two times, a while ago, and then I texted her last Monday and she seemed quite distant, not wanting to talk or anything. I texted her last Thursday and she sent like 3 texts back and then suddenly stopped mid-conversation. She seems that she doesn't want to (text/talk) to me anymore. Each time I text her, she seems that she doesn't want to talk to me at all. However, I texted her a few nights ago wondering if she would like to have another casual dinner on Wednesday, and she texted back right away and was suggesting times that would work for her, and we set it up very easily. We had dinner tonight and it was great. She is excited about formal, and wants to have a blast. Also, while at dinner, her best friend showed up but she neither sat with her or invited her to sit with us, we remained alone. PLEASE HELP! I really like her but I feel that she doesn't like me back, but I am getting some mixed signals. THANKS!
riggs Posted April 13, 2012 Posted April 13, 2012 Sounds to me like she has already been out with you once. Ask again! Except this time do it in person are on the phone. It's too easy to hide behind texting.
Author Bucky Badger Posted April 13, 2012 Author Posted April 13, 2012 Sounds to me like she has already been out with you once. Ask again! Except this time do it in person are on the phone. It's too easy to hide behind texting. Thanks for the input, but I feel that it was a mutually decided, casual dinner. I am thinking of going for something along the lines of actual date, of course. I appreciate the help though . . .
jobaba Posted April 13, 2012 Posted April 13, 2012 There is this girl I go to college with who I am very interested in. I am in a fraternity, and I met her this past fall in some Greek activities, and since then, whenever we see each other we always make small talk and she always greets me. I really like her, but I have a feeling that I am just in the friend zone right now. PLEASE HELP! I really like her but I feel that she doesn't like me back, but I am getting some mixed signals. THANKS! Lol. Another one. I feel the women of LS basically ignore these threads because they know the outcome. Don't be into a woman you don't know is into you buddy. Good luck...
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