I miss him :(

[Jadempk]

My ex and I have been broken up for 2 weeks now (he dumped me as he wasn't sure what he wanted). We did talk for about a week and a half to sort things out and so I could get answers and in this time we tld each other how much we miss each other. He said it was surreal not having me around.

I miss him so much, is it wrong to text him and see how he is doing?

He sent me a txt 2 days ago saying how was your day? I said pretty good (it was crap, i miss him!) and then no reply. Idon't know what to do.

I am trying not to think about it but for like an hr everday i CRY and cry and cry.

Surely he is thinking of me too, and still misses me?

I am trying to move forward and do things that make me happy but those things don't make me happy anymore

[jennisfora]

i know the feeling. i think i am in a depression over this. as for me it has been since late january, and it is now april, and i can no longer be in denial that he is coming back soon. i know now that he might not ever be back, and that there is nothing i can do about it. if you feel you need it, you can find a therapist. i talked to someone from a hotline, she helped a little. but a therapist would be better. me, it is a financial problem, i havent yet worked out, but i feel like i may need a little help getting out of this funk.

 

you should keep in mind it has only been two weeks, and it is normal to be confused, and a mess. you may handle it better with time.

[Jeosir]

Totally understand your experience. as for me, in the initial period of getting dumped, it is extremely tough to control your emotion toward the fact that someone leaves you when you still not prepare to accept.

Crying your tears everyday is healthy way to relieve your pain, as the time passing by, you will definitely be numb about how you express your sadness.

Don't ever think if either he will miss you or possibly get you back at some point. You will be better off on your own, he is not worthy to be loved by you in the way you love him, it is unfair that you still have the feeling for the guy who won't be having around you. Every time he said missing you is just a smoke signal that put you in his backup list when he is may be seeing someone else.

Go complete no contact, go find to do something makes you happy. God bless you !

[Jadempk]

Thanks everyone, I realise this would be hard but time is burning slowly. I just want to feel a little normal again. I am behind in uni and just starting to catch up because most days I didn't want to leave my bed. It hurts to see 5 of my friends get engaged this year and I know I wont be for a very long time. My heart is shattered. I know NC is the best way to heal but I'm not sure if I am ready for that yet. I still text him (would chat but he is working away), to talk about things but I miss having my best friend in life. I don't want to lose that too.

I miss him so so much, and he misses me to which is just so messed up. I understand he wants to figure stuff out and dosen't want me to wait but I have a feeling he will completely dissapear from my life soon and I need him, I need my best friend. I could live with everything else but NC for me is just too hard right now.