Laveli Posted April 12, 2012 Posted April 12, 2012 (edited) As many may know i also went through a break up, which was early March.After some arguments, i told her this is not working out. We need to end it ortake a break. She begged me, so i told her let’s talk about it the following day.That night she drove about two hours crying to see me, at which point i toldher lets work it out. She said no no, your right we need the break (I was notsure why she decided to try all the way to my house when she did not want towork things out). She said needed a month or two to improve her life. We wenton a low contact, but she asked to please don’t cut all ties and lets befriends. Which i said fine, (still under the assumption we may get backtogether in a certain amount of time like she said) But, it felt i was the onlyone texting and calling her. So we went NC for another week or two until fewdays ago i asked if we can hang out, she said sure. So i asked her do you thinkwe have any chance to get back, at which point she says "no i don’t see usgetting back" so i told her i can’t be friends in that case, she said that’sfine then i will not contact you anymore. Fast forward to yesterday i textedher apologizing for my actions and hoping to talk, she never responded back Feels bad, not sure how this all went down. Any thoughts will be very appreciated… Edited April 12, 2012 by Laveli
Chi townD Posted April 13, 2012 Posted April 13, 2012 Well, I would go complete NC on her. I mean, complete. No "okay, this is the last time I'm contacting you." Then a week later, "Okay, I really mean it this time!" then a week later " Oh and if I forgot to tell you, we can't be friends." Go NC and stay there. Heal and move on. She made her choice. Whether you believe if it was the right one or not, she made the choice and it wasn't you. For her to "turn off" so quickily makes me think that there might be someone else. 1
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