bball147 Posted April 12, 2012 Posted April 12, 2012 Ok so basically there is this girl that I caught looking at me a lot. They were just glances and she never held eye contact for very long. I would also catch her staring at me and when I catch her she quickly looks the other way. I would also catch her turning her head to look at me out of a crowd of people and when I see her she turns her head again. So basically I thought she might be interested so I asked for her name. After I got her name I would always be the ones to initiate conversation. She would say hi but never initiate conversation. Since she would never initiate I thought maybe she probably wasn't interested. However, there were times where we made small eye contact from far away without saying hi. Then later she would walk past my table and pretend not to notice me. Several times though, I would stare while she walks past me and I notice she will do very quick glances. Since she did this, I assumed she wanted me to do something. So three weeks after getting her name I asked her out to lunch and she basically rejected me saying that she wasn't sure and was kinda busy that week. So ya, I didn't get lunch with her. I'm just wondering if I misread the signs Because I thought for sure she liked me. thanks I am so confused. was her never initiating conversation her way of telling me she didn't like me? But I don't understand why she would always look at me still and walk past my table so many times.
Mystic Dreamer Posted April 12, 2012 Posted April 12, 2012 Girls (mostly when they are younger) do these silly little things when they feel that they might like you but aren't sure. I would say that she's probably shy and unsure about you. Try becoming her friend first so you guys can get to know each other more and get her to be more comfortable around you. Then when the time is right ask her for another date. If she still continues to act like this after sometime she just may be immature and you should just leave her alone.
wwwjd Posted April 12, 2012 Posted April 12, 2012 no, no... "sex by 3rd date, or it is too late" What???? Don't look at me like that. I learned that here on the internet so it MUST be true!! haahaha Actually, I thought I was the OP from another dimention. In the exact same situation, and still trying to figure out what to do about it. Good luck! If you are an alpha type who usually makes things happen, just keep up the pressure and she'll cave (alphas know what I am talking about). If not, don't worry about it, try the friend thing, but keep on keeping on.
Eddie Edirol Posted April 12, 2012 Posted April 12, 2012 If getting to know her doesnt work, she might have been staring at you, to get you to approach her, for an ego boost. She is practicing on you. Dont let her. Dont return her glances.
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