badavoom Posted April 12, 2012 Posted April 12, 2012 I really need advice on what should I do or should I just give up because I realised I have done alot of wrong things. Since mid last year, she developed feelings with a guy but we patched up after much persuasion. But things did not go well, she got close to another guy in September and we are constantly quarreling and she mentioned more than once that she has no more feelings for me. we broke up again in November last year and patched up when I sort of begged her to patch up, but she no longer feel close to me and from November til this year February, we no longer have any intimation at all, she rejected my advances in intimation. And shortly before Valentine's day, she wanted the final breakup. She told me that She has thought for very long already and is confirmed that she wants a breakup, and she will never ever like me again. And during this 1 month of breakup, I did terrorist text messaging, keep calling her. And when I found out that she got attached to another guy so fast, I got so furious that I scolded her on the phone and even confronted her face to face. I even tried to persuade her to not start a new relationship that guy so soon. But she told me that she is not going to change her decision. I have to admit that when we were together my temper was short and I neglected her feelings times and again, she cry often..I am really sorry that I did not handle the r/s the correct manner from the start, but I really wish I could do something to get her back. We have been together for 3 years and I really love her. I do not know how can I win her back, that now I have done so many wrong things and she is attached happily with another guy. I hope to get some advices from you guys...
geegirl Posted April 12, 2012 Posted April 12, 2012 I really need advice on what should I do or should I just give up because I realised I have done alot of wrong things. Since mid last year, she developed feelings with a guy but we patched up after much persuasion. But things did not go well, she got close to another guy in September and we are constantly quarreling and she mentioned more than once that she has no more feelings for me. we broke up again in November last year and patched up when I sort of begged her to patch up, but she no longer feel close to me and from November til this year February, we no longer have any intimation at all, she rejected my advances in intimation. And shortly before Valentine's day, she wanted the final breakup. She told me that She has thought for very long already and is confirmed that she wants a breakup, and she will never ever like me again. And during this 1 month of breakup, I did terrorist text messaging, keep calling her. And when I found out that she got attached to another guy so fast, I got so furious that I scolded her on the phone and even confronted her face to face. I even tried to persuade her to not start a new relationship that guy so soon. But she told me that she is not going to change her decision. I have to admit that when we were together my temper was short and I neglected her feelings times and again, she cry often..I am really sorry that I did not handle the r/s the correct manner from the start, but I really wish I could do something to get her back. We have been together for 3 years and I really love her. I do not know how can I win her back, that now I have done so many wrong things and she is attached happily with another guy. I hope to get some advices from you guys... It is time to let go. You can't turn her feelings around or make her want you back. She has to feel and do that on her own. She has no feelings for you and she is now in a happy relationship with someone else. It's loud and clear. Learn from your mistakes. Don't contact her anymore and start your healing process. You can't win her back. She's given you her decision so respect it and move on. I'm sorry you are hurting but that is all you can do. 1
robkris8079 Posted April 12, 2012 Posted April 12, 2012 you "scolded her"? Is she your child? I think you need to think back on those three years and grow as a person. It's time to work on you and sorry for some tough truth here but by reading your thread there is much work to be done. Leave your ex be to live her life and be happy.
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