MrSimple Posted April 12, 2012 Posted April 12, 2012 Hey guys! I've known this girl for about 4 years already. We were classmates during colleage, and we still keep in touch even after we graduated. She was my "advisor" in the sense for my first relationship, but things ended in a rather bad way. I was left feeling dejected and lost, and she sort of pulled me back up to my feet. Reason being, she knows the pain of losing someone you really love. We still meet up to chat, have dinner etc. She does share her worries with me, and sometimes we share drinks(think she doesn't really think too much about it) I've been seeing her more than a friend for quite awhile, but I'm afraid if I take things to the next level, I may run the risk of losing her for good. Any advice on what I should do?
january2011 Posted April 12, 2012 Posted April 12, 2012 The alternative is to never say a word and regret that you remained silent about your feelings. Which would you find more difficult to live with? I suggest a direct and honest approach and tell her that you've developed feelings for her and would like to be more than just friends. Then ask her what she thinks about that.
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