tansuri Posted April 12, 2012 Posted April 12, 2012 is it appropriate to hug a guy who broke up witth you during the face to face talk? How does a guy like to be hugged?from the back?if from the front, should my arms go round his neck or waist? Where should my face be? If he ignores my sms but answers my call, do i have hope? what should i do to be a good gf?tell him i love him?
Cratsky Posted April 12, 2012 Posted April 12, 2012 He has made it clear he does not want to be with you. Respect his position, he has his own reasons and does not need to justify himself to you. Hugging, kissing, getting on your knees and begging.. these are just additional behaviours to justify why he has made the right decision. This will be his last image of you. Is that image you want to leave him with? Keep your dignity, thank him for his time and let him know you appreciate him for breaking up in person. Get up, set your boundary i.e. not to call you, not to contact your friends.. whatever your boundaries are and walk away. Do not look back. When someone breaks up with you, it is saying on no uncertain terms 'I do not want to be with you.' Why would you try and win back someone who has clearly said they don't want you?
oaks Posted April 12, 2012 Posted April 12, 2012 is it appropriate to hug a guy who broke up witth you during the face to face talk? Sure! Well, it might be. It depends how he feels about it, too. How does a guy like to be hugged?from the back?if from the front, should my arms go round his neck or waist? Where should my face be? Everyone is different. You were together with him before, but you don't know how he likes to be hugged? That seems strange. How long were you together?
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