Bucky Badger Posted April 12, 2012 Posted April 12, 2012 There is this girl I go to college with who I am very interested in. I am in a fraternity, and I met her this past fall in some Greek activities, and since then, whenever we see each other we always make small talk and she always greets me. I have a fraternity formal coming up, and a few weeks ago, she told me how her formal went really crappy because her date was making out with another girl the whole time. I decided to ask her to my formal and she said she would love to go. Since then, she has texted me first twice, and we have casual conversations together. Last Saturday, we had a casual dinner together that lasted for over an hour and we just talked. It was great! We have some mutual friends, and she has told them that I am a "super cool guy" and that I am a "really nice guy." I really like her, but I have a feeling that I am just in the friend zone right now. She did text me first two times, a while ago, and then I texted her last Monday and she seemed quite distant, not wanting to talk or anything. I texted her last Thursday and she sent like 3 texts back and then suddenly stopped mid-conversation. She seems that she doesn't want to (text/talk) to me anymore. Each time I text her, she seems that she doesn't want to talk to me at all. However, I texted her a few nights ago wondering if she would like to have another casual dinner on Wednesday, and she texted back right away and was suggesting times that would work for her, and we set it up very easily. We had dinner tonight and it was great. She is excited about formal, and wants to have a blast. Also, while at dinner, her best friend showed up but she neither sat with her or invited her to sit with us, we remained alone. PLEASE HELP! I really like her but I feel that she doesn't like me back, but I am getting some mixed signals. THANKS!
Author Bucky Badger Posted April 12, 2012 Author Posted April 12, 2012 Not saying this is going to be set in stone, or anything near for that matter, but if formal ends up going well, would it be a good idea to ask her out afterwards?
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