What exactly is this guy thinking or saying to me? Is there anything there?

[PsykkoPrincess]

I met this guy in January, and we have grown close since then. He was in my math class, and we hit it off. We have so much fun together, and have SOOOO much in common. We want the same things out of relationships. Now his gf dumped him around the time I met him. They were only together for about 4 months, but he was very sad, and depressed. So he said he wanted to take things slow, and day by day and just get to know each other.

His folks actually want to meet me too.

He has told me that I have become more important to him, and special. That he thinks about me more, and worries about me. We recently had spring break from school, and we spent it apart but spent everyday talking to each other. He said he missed me while we were apart, and couldn't wait to see me again. Also after two weeks of not seeing me, when he finally did and we hugged, he was shaking, very nervous, and I felt how fast his heart was racing, and he let out a hard breath.

started to hold hands more, and he his very attentive to me, and loving. We recently had sex for the first time ( I am not his gf ) but I feel like because of how we are moving forward and getting closer that this was good. Afterwards I told him he meant a lot to me, and he told me the same thing. We has told me many times I am his preference of the type of girl he would go after. also he is white and I am from the caribbean. He loves it by the way! He gets the food we cook, he ask me about my culture, and wants to go there.

 

He likes to bring up other girls that he met in class, or tell me about a guy in his class that I would like, and then he would say " I could hook you up, or you would like him "

 

I have already told him how much he means to me, and he has told me that he is on the uphill from getting over his ex, that he doesn't think about her anymore unless I bring her up. That I am important to him, I mean a lot to him, and that I mean more to him that his ex did. He is just confused and doesn't know when he would be ready. That he would know when he knows.

 

 

The subject of us sometimes comes up and sometimes we do get into little arguments, or discussions. Sometimes he slips into a little depression state, and thinks he is unseen, or unnoticed by people. He grew up pretty sheltered, and didn't have many friends, girls didn't pay him any attention. So sometimes I feel unnoticed myself when I give him nothing but love and attention. I cook for him, and support him. We hang out all the time, and have a great time.

 

I really need to know how to go about this, so we wouldn't get into another argument like we did tonight. I need to know the steps to take in order to not loose this guy, and make him see me for what I am.

can someone help me?

Thank you.