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Hey everyone. My first post so yeah. Well I've known this girl from school for three years. We have had the same classes each year. We've be "just friends" for the last few years. I've had girlfriends and all. But now, it seems as though we are very close. She's started telling me that she loves me. After we come back to school from weekends, she always say that she missed me. One of her friends even told me that she's liked me since we first met. But there's a problem. She is always flirting with this guy. She's kind of a freak too. She's told this guy that she just wants to have sex with him. Even though he tells her to her face that he doesn't like her and doesn't want to have sex with her, she keeps trying. All of this happens in front of me because I'm with her most of the school day. So a week before spring break, I came to the conclusion that all of the "I love you" stuff was bs. For the whole week, I was talking to a lot of other girls while almost ignoring her. I could tell that she didn't like that. She was jealous. This basically turned out to be a flirting shoot out between us; she would flirt with every other guy and I would flirt with every other girl. We acted like everything was cool between us at the same time. Spring break came. I was really missing her. We came back to school and it seemed like our little battle came to a draw. She tells me that she really missed me. She starts telling me that I'm her best friend. Then, a few classes after, she's flirting with the same guy all over again. Not as much though. I decide to ignore it. A few classes after that, she says,"let's hold hands so we can look like a couple." I acted like I didn't hear her and went on with my business. I don't want to get too attached if she's going to be messing with other guys. The weird thing is that when I'm just regularly talking to any girl she's always trying to basically cockblock me. One time, I was talking to this girl and she comes over to us. She says to me, in front of the girl," i think this girl likes you or something" I was a little shocked. Overall, I feel like I've been friend zoned but at the same time locked down as if we went out. I really like her and I know she likes me. Should I just drop her and find another girl? Because i don't like her flirting with guys and then get jealous when socialize with any girl. I don't know if we are friends or more than friends. What should I do?

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