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Hello! I am just wanting a opinions about all of this that I am going through at the minute. I broke up with my girlfriend a few weeks ago (I lost feeling for her and it was not working out). I also decided to pursue an old crush from the seventh grade. I get along with her group of friends well, and one of her friends that is a girl had a crush on me at the end of the eighth grade.

 

The guys in the group I also get along with. Yesterday I asked one of the guys (my old friend) if I could hang out with him and his friends, but he said one of his friends is going out of town and nothing is going on, so there was no definitive answer and I am preparing for the worst as if he is politely avoiding the request, but I really don't know for sure.

 

The girl that had a crush on me a while ago and one of her friends are in my Latin class, and we have a club meeting Friday (in our class, the zero period, all students are in the club). I am thinking of talking to those two girls (which I have talked to before, the girls are semi-acquaintances as in I would ask a question or make a comment some days and they would also about something, etc).

 

I am thinking of talking to the two on Friday and starting up a conversation, asking one of them how her boyfriend is doing which will instigate her asking me how my girlfriend and I are doing, and since we are not together anymore I will mention that and not say much. Obviously they will ask what happened and act a little shocked, the normal responses (we had been going out 19 months), and I will just say that it had been coming and that it wasn't working out and that I have nothing to do and no one to really hang out with. The last part is a bit subtlety and just a bit out there (I can work it into the conversation), and I am hoping that one of them will say something in spite of hearing that.

 

I don't really know. I just wanted your opinions about this whole thing because I really have no other friends (not that I am socially awkward or ugly but because I really never asked to hang out with others), so I am not in a group. If you have any advice I would really appreciate it. Thank you for reading all of this :)

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