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I have a problem. A big one.. I over analyze everything. I contemplate things way too much.. and i constantly second guess my second guesses. I just never act...

 

this is something that is really getting to me.. and its hurting my confidence in certain situations. I just dont think people are "interested" in me, so i always try to think about it.. and always end up dismissing things..

 

i dont know..its really frustrating.

 

Anyone have some tips? sorry if this has been asked before :(

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I sometimes do that too. You need to boost your self esteem...maybe read some books on the subject. Believe in yourself. It could also be about controlling situations, and fearing risk.

 

You cannot control everything in life...do not let fear hold you back ...if you make a mistake...so what? You'll learn from it and move on.

 

These are lessons I have been, and still am, learning.

 

So think things through, by all means, but then make a decision, and just stick with it, and go forward. It's will be the right one for you at that time. Trust in yourself.

 

You can break the cycle you are in...but you need to want to.

 

Good luck.

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