Ashleycm1092 Posted April 11, 2012 Posted April 11, 2012 Lost would be an understatement when describing my current situation. I am very close with this guy, were basically best friends. If I'm not at work or sleeping, I'm with him. We spent all our time with each other and all our friends joke around and tell us were a married couple. And we sure act like one too. We've never hooked up, or even talked about it. Partly because I think we both are scared it would put a damper on our friendship, and partly because I think he is still in love with his first and only girlfriend (who is also a friend of mine and lives across the country now). I've had feelings for him for a while now, and I think he has always known. I feel like it would be hard for him not to. Anyways, last week a bunch of our mutual friends took an over night trip. In the morning I went over to his hotel room to wake him and another friend up and he asked me for a back massage (nothing new). It was freezing in the room, so I got in the bed and underneath the covers with him to give him a back massage. He moved way closer to me, put his feet on top of mine and grabbed my leg and apologized for upsetting me the night before. I told him he could give me a back massage to make up for it (since he neve gives me them back). The back massage I received was far from a friendly one. He was caressing my back, going under the lining of my pants and thong. What was supposed to be a quick wake up call turned into an hour of us lying in bed together. Now I'm just so confused. Does he feel the same way I do? Nothing had happened since then, but Im left wondering what that meant, what he was thinking, and what I should do now. Please help.
Philosoraptor Posted April 11, 2012 Posted April 11, 2012 I think he is interested but is probably worried about the same things as you. If you feel like this could work out, then I'd say go for it. If you're not sure of things, then I'd avoid it and let the feelings pass.
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