yazz23 Posted April 11, 2012 Posted April 11, 2012 So another confusing male..... I met this guy and we had a lil something goin on. He moved away and got a job about 7 hrs. away so naturally we talk online and whatnot. We've always flirted and pretty much planned to be FWB, but our schedules never really worked out to great. He's sorta hot and cold, so a bit of a tough read. Anyways, he texts me about 3 weeks ago, saying he really wants to see me and plans on making a trip out to see me in the summer. A week ago, I sent him a flirty text and he never responded. 3 days later I landed a job interview in his area and was planning on saying stopping by, so I texted him with " Wanna hear something crazy?" He didn't respond till about 6 hrs later and did it through facebook instead of text. Anyways, the job seemed sketch after I researched it and didn't end up goin so I mentioned that to him, and after all that he said goodnight and that he would "ttyl buddy". WTF?? where did buddy come from?? did he all of a sudden friend zone me out of nowhere?? when 3 days before he was talking about cuddling and how we should see each other. I'm thoroughly confused and dont know what to do. If I am in the friend zone, how do I get out?
SmileFace Posted April 11, 2012 Posted April 11, 2012 Umm pretty sure he is banging something else , that where his attention probably is. Yeah being fwb is technically being in the friend zone. Plus a long distance fwb is pointless. You must want a relationship and he was only giving you the option of a fwb. Don't settle for less. Move on
sigurpol Posted April 11, 2012 Posted April 11, 2012 I hate that. The other week, a girl that I've been trying to work things out with, was discussing customer service to me about this one restaurant. When I said I've been there before, she says, "I know, dude. Sucks". Dude? Anyway, sounds like he's occupied with something/someone else? I mean, when you want to get back to someone, you want to get back to them. I know I forget sometimes myself, but when I hear from someone that I like/think of, I get back to them rather quickly.
Eddie Edirol Posted April 11, 2012 Posted April 11, 2012 If he doesnt get back to you right away, or at least within a half an hour initially, then he isnt interested. Dont stress the buddy part. obviously you need this FWB more than he does, and youre hoping for more. You will never get more, so forget about it. Dont initiate texts with him. Let him look for you. Dont take anything he says serious until you see him in person.
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