wwwjd Posted April 11, 2012 Posted April 11, 2012 A Brave Heart.... "Aye, stay in the relationship and you may die inside a little everyday. Run and you'll live -- at least a while. And dying in your beds many years from now, would you be willing to trade all the days from this day to that for one chance, just one chance to come back here and tell her that she may take your money, she may take your pride, but she'll never take your FREEDOOOMMMM!!!" Just pulled the plug.. needed to be done. It was brain dead for a while now. No more breath, no more life, three false truths caught in the last week, flaky schedule shuffling, no reasons to stay... time to kick back, enjoy every day without all that hanging over. No backup installed, no rebound (I never do that anyway) BACK TO LIFE! 1
Author wwwjd Posted April 11, 2012 Author Posted April 11, 2012 I know Vegas, but what's in Monte Carlo?
Author wwwjd Posted June 19, 2012 Author Posted June 19, 2012 2.5 months and she's contacting me. Right on predictable schedule. NEED SOME HELP, FELLOW LOVE DUDES AND DUDETTES: Should I reply to her email AT ALL or continue my side of no contact? I thought I had blocked her email, but maybe not or she used a new one. If I should reply, should I simply state I don't want to contact her anymore due to her lies? I'm good to go either way, but no interest in meeting or anything. Kinda leaning toward not replying since that would be more final, and different from the past where I have been more polite.
Author wwwjd Posted June 19, 2012 Author Posted June 19, 2012 just good to get support from random internet strangers. thanks! 3
SomedayDig Posted June 20, 2012 Posted June 20, 2012 How do ya feel wwwjd? I mean, do you feel the freeeeedom of your initial post? If you do, then there's absolutely no reason on this Earth that you should reply. If you don't feel that tingle within from your first post, I say go watch the f'ng movie. THEN don't reply and feel wicked better about yourself and your random internet strangers giving you advice!
Author wwwjd Posted June 20, 2012 Author Posted June 20, 2012 well.... seeing as easy sex could be involved, and I am male, you understand my dilema. But, I do feel good without her baggage and lies, so, yes, I'm standing my ground, deleted, blocked and will not reply. It's a 2 decade FWB friendship that just needs to shrivel and die. Which I thought I took care of that already. But, of course, she'll think it is another phase I'll grow through and want sex again. Nope. No trust. No interest. No thanks.
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