TaintedHeart Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 I'm so tempted to contact my ex, I'm not sure why, maybe just so he thinks about me for a few minutes, sad I know!
robkris8079 Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 You should have just written what you would tell him in the thread about contacting your ex. It helps to say it sometimes. Either he is not thinking of you or he is. End result it still hurts and your not together.
Author TaintedHeart Posted April 10, 2012 Author Posted April 10, 2012 damn that is sad Wow you must be bored.
geegirl Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 If you have to remind someone of your existence, then it is very sad. Do it and it only alleviates your pain temporarily and you soon go back to the hole you were once mopping in. Nothing changes. Then a week from now when you feel he's forgotten you again, you contact for another reminder? There is a reason why he needs to be reminded. That should make you cringe. 2
Author TaintedHeart Posted April 10, 2012 Author Posted April 10, 2012 If you have to remind someone of your existence, then it is very sad. Do it and it only alleviates your pain temporarily and you soon go back to the hole you were once mopping in. Nothing changes. Then a week from now when you feel he's forgotten you again, you contact for another reminder? There is a reason why he needs to be reminded. That should make you cringe. I'm not going to contatct, I was just very temted and the urge was getting the better of me. He might be thinking of me, he might not be. I'll never know.
Author TaintedHeart Posted April 10, 2012 Author Posted April 10, 2012 If you have to remind someone of your existence, then it is very sad. Do it and it only alleviates your pain temporarily and you soon go back to the hole you were once mopping in. Nothing changes. Then a week from now when you feel he's forgotten you again, you contact for another reminder? There is a reason why he needs to be reminded. That should make you cringe. I didn't contact him and I'm not going to. It was just an urge that was trying to get the better of me. I'm sure everyone is guilty of wanting to contact their ex.
geegirl Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 I didn't contact him and I'm not going to. It was just an urge that was trying to get the better of me. I'm sure everyone is guilty of wanting to contact their ex. Everyone is guilty of wanting to contact an ex. No one said you were the odd one out. If you post about wanting to contact an ex to remind him of your existence, and even state how sad that is, then posters are going to come and give you a swift kick in the butt. Sometimes it's a good wake up call. You didn't post that you wanted to remind him but you WON'T because you WILL NOT allow yourself to stoop so low. Maybe then you would have gotten a different response.
Author TaintedHeart Posted April 10, 2012 Author Posted April 10, 2012 Everyone is guilty of wanting to contact an ex. No one said you were the odd one out. If you post about wanting to contact an ex to remind him of your existence, and even state how sad that is, then posters are going to come and give you a swift kick in the butt. Sometimes it's a good wake up call. You didn't post that you wanted to remind him but you WON'T because you WILL NOT allow yourself to stoop so low. Maybe then you would have gotten a different response. That is normally case, we want our ex's to remember us ect. I just stated the simpe fact of it being sad, because it is.
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