Silverheels Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 So over the weekend I met a guy. He was talking to my sister and I at a local hangout while we waited for out friends. He is moving to the area at the end of the summer and wanted to know so places to hang out. We all got to talking and when our friends decided to go some where else I stayed behind. The conversation was good, he wasn't trying to pick me up and it was nice not having to deal with drama. On the way out he asked for my number and I gave it to him. He was texting me for about an hour after and asked if I would take him to check out a hiking spot the next morning. Since I love the outdoors I said sure. We met up and did a little hike and checked out some scenery. We hung out again last night, taking a run/walk for about 2 hours. He is very smart, funny, witty and cute. Since I had just gotten out of a relationship I wasn't really looking. So as we are finishing up he says he has a confession..."I have a girlfriend back home and I didn't want to tell you when we met because we were having such a great time and I didn't think you would want to hang out with me otherwise." I was a little bit shocked since he was flirting with me quite a bit. I told him it was cool and that I would have hung out regardless (which is true, about 90% of my friends are males). I asked if she would be joining him in his move and he said probably not until a year later. He then asked me to dinner and I declined. He contiuned to text me last night and this morning before his flight. Telling me how funny, smart, witty, cute and sexy I was. I just said thanks and continued about my business. I am a very laid back person and when I am interested in a guy I will show it. I didn't act any differently with him than one of my friends. I just don't get why he just didn't tell me he had a lady? Then on top of it flirt with me. Like I said most of my friends are guys and because I am newly single I want to stay that way for a while and focus on myself. Suggestions on where to go from here?
findingnemo Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 Where to go from where? You mean with this guy? If so, nowhere. He has a girlfriend and has informed you. Anything you do with him in a R sense is at your own risk. He is probably one of those sleek cheaters who prep the prey before hand so that you can never say he lied to you. If that's not what you meant, then just go one with your life. It sounds busy and fun. And in any case, you're not ready for a R, so...
Author Silverheels Posted April 10, 2012 Author Posted April 10, 2012 I am not the type to be a "home wrecker" and I have been in his gf's shoes. I don't intend on ever talking to him and when he does move here and if he does try and contact me...I won't be around. The less drama in my life the better.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 I'm impressed that you weren't overcome by the heat of the moment and that you remained true to your own standards. In reality it would be up to that guy to end things with the girlfriend 'back home' were he REALLY interested in making a romantic effort with you. 1
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