sid3 Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 It seems everywhere I go, there they are. Maybe the warmer weather is bringing them out, IDK. There's just too many choices, how does a person pick just one? I'm by no means a lady killer, just an average guy. I get checked out slightly more than I get rejected. Sometimes a little too much, that's probably my own fault. I flirt with all of them. I rarely leave my house without coming home with a new crush, or an encounter where a women is showing some interest. Ughh! Yesterday I ran into the store to just get a few things and get out fast, big mistake. There she was, working behind the deli counter. A very cute latina chic. She gave me that look, and smile, I can always tell. I already have a date for Friday, but I still intend to go and see her at some point. The list is getting a bit long. I don't know why, but there just seem to be way way too many options these days. I stay away from online dating. Last time I tried that I ended up going on two dates on the same night. I thought maybe I was turning into an attention whore, but that's not it. I think I'm just addicted to women. I've had enough sex to last me a life time, so that's not it either. Although I do plan on having more sex, its not a priority. I find a lot of women just as sexy clothed as naked these days. I don't know, its probably not the worst problem to have, but still its frustrating. Blonde, brunette, latina, younger, older, nice girl, good girl, bad girl:confused: it took me years to weed out curly haired girls. Yes, I'm a little shallow. I can't be the only one that loves being single and has this problem.
William Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 How about a fresh start? It seems some members can't address the topic. I hope future respondents do better.
Author sid3 Posted April 10, 2012 Author Posted April 10, 2012 How about a fresh start? It seems some members can't address the topic. I hope future respondents do better. Thanks William!!!!
FitChick Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 Who says you get to choose? Just because you want a woman doesn't mean she will want you.
Author sid3 Posted April 10, 2012 Author Posted April 10, 2012 I get to choose which ones I am interested. Just like they get to choose to return the interest or laugh at me. Do you wait around for a man to pick you? I doubt it, or at least hope that's not the case.
dasein Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 Get them in a circle and spin a bottle on the floor?
Feelsgoodman Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 I get to choose which ones I am interested. Just like they get to choose to return the interest or laugh at me. Do you wait around for a man to pick you? I doubt it, or at least hope that's not the case. I bet she does. Most women don't have what it takes to initiate.
Kamille Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 I can't be the only one that loves being single and has this problem. I don't see where the problem is. It sounds like you're having fun. Is the problem that you want a relationship? Then the solution is easy: think about what you want in a relationship and date all these wonderful women with that in mind. The right one will be obvious. 1
Author sid3 Posted April 10, 2012 Author Posted April 10, 2012 I don't see where the problem is. It sounds like you're having fun. Is the problem that you want a relationship? Then the solution is easy: think about what you want in a relationship and date all these wonderful women with that in mind. The right one will be obvious. You're right I am having a lot fun. I think because I took a few years off from dating to take care of my terminally ill mom, now that I'm dating again I feel a bit like a kid in a candy store. Nothing like watching a loved one pass away to be reminded just how short life really is.
Saxis Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 And nothing like a large variety of random a$$ to forget about the pain of that...
fishtaco Posted April 11, 2012 Posted April 11, 2012 When it rains it pours. That's just how it is. Enjoy it as much as you can. It's a good problem to have. Just don't get discouraged when you do hit a dry spell, and oh, you will. But you'll get over it, and all will be good again. Being single is fun. I kinda miss it too.
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