redrose123 Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 My ex texted me today for the first time about 7 weeks since we split to tell me he saw something that reminded him of me (it was kind of an inside thing between us while we were dating) We texted a few times about some random stuff and inside jokes and then I told him I had to go because I was going To the gym. I honestly didn't think I'd ever hear from him and I'm confused as to his intentions with this.. I'm wondering if he may try to contact me again. What do you all think?
Mr Scorpio Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 You can never know if any given time you speak with your ex will be the last time. There are stories on here of exs reaching out years after breakups. My ex contacted me a year later out of the blue to see if I wanted to hang out at a concert. 1
Philosoraptor Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 It matters not what we think. There are tons of reasons that contact is made. Sometimes it's checking up in a nice way, sometimes it's checking up to see if they are doing better than you. To me, the fact that he mentioned an inside joke seems that he wanted to still see if he was important to you since you hadn't spoken in 7 weeks. The question is how did it make you feel? 1
BewitchedandBothered Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 You can never know if any given time you speak with your ex will be the last time. There are stories on here of exs reaching out years after breakups. My ex contacted me a year later out of the blue to see if I wanted to hang out at a concert. My ex loathes me; I doubt he would ever try contacting me again; his last attempt was August; I ignored. In RedRose's case, I wonder if that inside joke made him miss her a little bit and want to contact. It's hard to read these ex's. Most times I think they aren't doing so well and want to see if the ex is still swooning. 1
Author redrose123 Posted April 10, 2012 Author Posted April 10, 2012 It was nice talking to him. I honestly think he had alterior motives but probably didn't know how to go about talking about it so he's trying to warm me up by bringing up good memories. I'm gonna try not to read into it too much though. It did give me a little confidence boost to know he was thinking about me.
perryb13 Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 Breadcrumbs Unfortunately, this could just be it :/ he might honestly miss you, but he could've just been lonely and he maybe he thought you'd just go running back to him and he'd get some attention. If it made you feel good, keep contacting him and see what happens. Just know that if he stops contacting you and you get hurt, it was because you didn't give it enough time to heal before talking to him.
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