mr_sexxxy Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 I realized my main mistake is in chasing women who are less physically attractive and/or have serious self esteem issues. I have been chasing some of these women wondering why they are so nervous and/or hostile toward me. In the meantime, I've been ignoring the advances of truly beautiful women. In most towns, they are working as hostesses and bartenders chosen especially for their beauty, to encourage repeat business. These women will often ignore paying customers (ready to purchase multiple expensive drinks), simply so that they can chat with me and offer me something for free. In a room with hundreds of men, they will choose me to talk to and serve first, ignoring and often inconveniencing everyone else. This is despite the fact that I almost never buy a drink at a bar. Anyway, it just goes to show you, while men are hardwired to "chase," it is often completely unnecessary. So, let the trolling begin. As in, "you're so vain," "post your picture if you're forreal," "you're so full of yourself."
johan Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 I'm not finding much here to advise about or discuss. Whatever works for you, I guess. Post pictures if you want. Good for you.
Mme. Chaucer Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 Wowee. You must be spectacularly awesome. Oh, if only you would give us a thrill and post some pictures of your superlativeness. Please?
OhHey Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 So, let the trolling begin. As in, "you're so vain," "post your picture if you're forreal," "you're so full of yourself." I'm the hottest thing to hit LS and I had to close my P/M from all the advances from hot LS chics I was getting.... GAWDA! I feel you.
Mme. Chaucer Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 But I have a sincere question. How is it that you just "realized" that you chase unattractive women, while extreme beauties have been fawning over you all the while? Are you slow on the uptake in general? 2
Author mr_sexxxy Posted April 10, 2012 Author Posted April 10, 2012 The lesson is quite simple: don't fall for the trap of chasing, it's the trap of the competitive ego. Instead, recognize that it is flowing to you.
johan Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 But I have a sincere question. How is it that you just "realized" that you chase unattractive women, while extreme beauties have been fawning over you all the while? Are you slow on the uptake in general? Ha ha... Good point... "Hey..... Wait a minute..... There are HOT chicks around here.... And they are throwing themselves at me.... And here I was letting myself get distracted by all these ugly chicks."
Mme. Chaucer Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 The lesson is quite simple: don't fall for the trap of chasing, it's the trap of the competitive ego. Instead, recognize that it is flowing to you. That's not a good enough answer. Why do you like to chase the less attractive or "low self esteem" girls? If you just wanted to "chase," why weren't you chasing the gorgeous ones? Maybe you want to be the most pretty member of any relationship you are in. You sure like to brag about your looks a lot.
veggirl Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 Maybe OP thought that he HAD to chase so that's what he was focussed on and truly didn't notice other girls trying to get his attention. Many times girls are quite...subtle with their "I like you" vibes. Anyway, I don't know....who cares....maybe he thought all he could get were the regular girls and now he sees he can get hotter ones. I used to think I was bleh because I had low self esteem, and my choices in men reflected that. I never went after hot guys. I realized later that many were giving me attention, I just didn't recognize it because I didnt think they ever would. I wasn't a bad person because of it....huh.
Author mr_sexxxy Posted April 10, 2012 Author Posted April 10, 2012 No one cares if the answer is good enough for you or not. We all know that you are one of the ugly hag decepticons. That's not a good enough answer. Why do you like to chase the less attractive or "low self esteem" girls? If you just wanted to "chase," why weren't you chasing the gorgeous ones? Maybe you want to be the most pretty member of any relationship you are in. You sure like to brag about your looks a lot.
Mme. Chaucer Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 No one cares if the answer is good enough for you or not. We all know that you are one of the ugly hag decepticons. I guess you're right. And now I'm bumming because your days of chasing us ugly hags are over, and I never even got my chance. Waaaah.
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