xxSRMxx Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 On the phone for over an hour, he said theres aspects of me hes missing but alot of aspects that hes not missing. I told him the changes I was making and that I hoped one day he'd find it in his heart to give me another chance.... he didnt say no, but he didnt say yes either. I had a good guy, I messed it up, Im not going to put any focus on us getting back together because I genuinely dont believe its going to happen. We ended the conversation with him saying he will be in touch to see how im getting on. I feel in a very very dark place right now, cant see me getting out of it....
Mr Scorpio Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 I feel in a very very dark place right now, cant see me getting out of it.... If you cannot see yourself getting out of it, no possible way that you can escape it, then you probably won't. But you never know what life may throw at you. You could meet the man of your dreams tomorrow. Or the Earth could be engulfed by a supernova. Point being, start visualizing how you can get out of it. Then, take steps to make that vision a reality.
fucpcg Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 Im my struggles with forgiving myself over being a crap boyfriend right before getting dumped by my ex, I've read an endless amount of relationship and self help material. One of the things that stood out was in so many words "As much as you would hope that you will go thru life never hurting anyone, the reality is that's an impossible request. So learn to forgive yourself and learn from the mistakes you made, and be quick to learn to forgive others who hurt you, because one day you will be in their shoes".
Author xxSRMxx Posted April 10, 2012 Author Posted April 10, 2012 I dont want to end up feeling like hes the one that got away and forever regretting it and not being able to move forward, That is what I fear I will do.
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