amythan Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 (edited) This sounds a bit silly but I like a guy and I find myself daydreaming ... It was long time ago last time i liked someone that much. He cannot care less of course. I am the kind of person who is popular and people usually like me. I think i am smart, pretty and funny and usually guys are interested in me but for me, it is difficult to really like someone. And now I like the one who doesn't like me back. He is hot as hell (and he knows that), and funny and too much of a party animal. Much younger than me and we slept together a few times. He always says that we should meet up again but plans never go through. Which means he is not interested. I understand why. He looks for someone his age and his religion and I cannot change the fact I am not this person. So if i am not gf material, why should he make plans with me when he has lots of options and lots of stunning girls around. I get it. But sometimes when other guys show interest i think "why doesn't he like me ?". People tell me I am beautiful and he doesn't even look at me. He was the one asking for my number and at the beginning he looked kind of interested but It is being ages from last time we saw each other and it looks hopeless ... Yeah I have a crush. Edited April 9, 2012 by amythan
sid3 Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 This sounds a bit silly but I like a guy and I find myself daydreaming ... It was long time ago last time i liked someone that much. He cannot care less of course. I am the kind of person who is popular and people usually like me. I think i am smart, pretty and funny and usually guys are interested in me but for me, it is difficult to really like someone. And now I like the one who doesn't like me back. He is hot as hell (and he knows that), and funny and too much of a party animal. Much younger than me and we slept together a few times. He always says that we should meet up again but plans never go through. Which means he is not interested. I understand why. He looks for someone his age and his religion and I cannot change the fact I am not this person. So if i am not gf material, why should he make plans with me when he has lots of options and lots of stunning girls around. I get it. But sometimes when other guys show interest i think "why doesn't he like me ?". People tell me I am beautiful and he doesn't even look at me. He was the one asking for my number and at the beginning he looked kind of interested but It is being ages from last time we saw each other and it looks hopeless ... Yeah I have a crush. It sounds hopeless based on what you've shared. Isn't that why they call it a crush though, often it results in being crushed.
Anela Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 So his religion allows him to sleep around? I thought that was a no-no.
SmileFace Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 So his religion allows him to sleep around? I thought that was a no-no. Didn't you know religion only applies in circumstances you want it to? 3
Anela Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 Didn't you know religion only applies in circumstances you want it to? Yeah, that's what I thought. I've seen this excuse mentioned here more than once, and it always annoys me. 1
Professor X Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 Didn't you know religion only applies in circumstances you want it to? Maybe he's part of the Flying Spaghetti Monster ???
Author amythan Posted April 9, 2012 Author Posted April 9, 2012 I am not saying that he would like me if i had his religion !!! But he wants a girl sharing his culture and religion. I had an indian bf in the past who was always very clear about this ... he date around but he will marry and indian girl. I he meant it. He is not indian btw. Bah it doesn't matter ... my point was that i like him but he is not interested
SmileFace Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 I am not saying that he would like me if i had his religion !!! But he wants a girl sharing his culture and religion. I had an indian bf in the past who was always very clear about this ... he date around but he will marry and indian girl. I he meant it. He is not indian btw. Bah it doesn't matter ... my point was that i like him but he is not interested Yeah this is why I dont follow any religion. I like to freely **** and marry who I please. Haha but in all seriousness. I have dealt with guys like this and they stated the same - I personally think it is horrible that some one can be ok with stepping out of their religion as well as their beliefs and be ok with it.
Mme. Chaucer Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 Is this the same guy who is not interested in you that you have been posting about since January? Isn't this a pattern for you?
Author amythan Posted April 9, 2012 Author Posted April 9, 2012 It seems that I only like the unavailable or uninterested ones It is not that there are not other guys interested in me and for a strange reason after breaking up with my ex-bf (with whom i lived for nine years) i only go out with the wrong ones .. Do not get me wrong, i am not even sure i want a relationship or at least i realize it will not work with them. I just want to go out, have fun and date casually. After all i do not think that i am really really over the last guy i dated for around one year. Who btw texted me yesterday after six months without saying one word .. great.
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