Why do guys get put into the friendzone?

[ThaWholigan]

We can't control others. Since dating involves relationships with others, no, none of us have complete control over dating.

 

But we can control what we will and will not accept. And we can control where we focus our attention and energy.

 

Moving your focus away from dating for a while does not need to mean "giving up". It can be a positive choice to focus on something else right now--something that builds you up rather than tearing you down. And that change in focus could result in you ending up in a place where dating is much more fulfilling.

I have to say this is kinda true. Getting started on my business and starting writing/making beats again is really doing wonders for my psyche at the moment .

 

All I need to do now is start training......and I'm staying at my dad and he has lots of gym stuff, so I'm gonna be training hard for at least a month or so

[KR10N]

That's what I'd like to know.

 

I'm not talking about coming on too strong. Only just letting the girl know I'm interested.

 

I have never done anything that can be interpreted as coming on too strong, but apparently I've let too much interest be known.

 

I don't know what to do anymore.

I just never could understand why people do this either. Maybe I'm just weird?

[MrNate 2.0]

I have to say this is kinda true. Getting started on my business and starting writing/making beats again is really doing wonders for my psyche at the moment .

 

All I need to do now is start training......and I'm staying at my dad and he has lots of gym stuff, so I'm gonna be training hard for at least a month or so

 

Get that swole on man! Make them pecs bounce.

[MrNate 2.0]

I always seemed to find the friend zone to be fairly simple.

 

We each put people in there that we don't like sexually/romantically. That's it. Surely it didn't take over 16 pages to realize this?

[ThaWholigan]

Get that swole on man! Make them pecs bounce.

Euro Training

 

[Eddie Edirol]

Now things are starting to make sense.

 

I thought my head was going to explode.

 

Thank you xxoo.

 

SD, will you remember this?

 

Does this answer Ross' question?

[joystickd]

Why worry about the friendzone? Just do what I do. When she says lets just be friends she doesn't exist to me anymore. The only female friends I have are lesbian because they think the same as you and will hook you up with a smash and dash every once and a while. Heterosexual women won't even hook you up really well some won't. She says it well in my mind its like f**k that b**ch. That just my mindset to really not stress on the situation because only YOU can put yourself in the friendzone. That is the equivalent of being a trick or a sucker. There are too many women out here to be hung up on one friendzoning you.

[verhrzn]

Just be friends with ugly women. Then you'll never even care about the friend zone.

[joystickd]

Just be friends with ugly women. Then you'll never even care about the friend zone.

LOL! Well the guys that focus on it shouldn't even devote that energy to being friendzoned. They just need to get out here meet some women and sex zone them. It helped me out.

[jobaba]

Now things are starting to make sense.

 

I thought my head was going to explode.

 

Dude. You have got to take action.

 

Enough introspection.

 

Take your cue from the dude who just went through 26 women in the past year.

 

If you really want a woman (and I'm not so sure that you do), you've gotta put yourself out there.

 

Of the men on here who have never had a relationship, I have never even heard of any of them even having a date.

 

Except Wolfie. What happened to Wolfie?

 

He probably has a harem of subservient females catering to his needs by now.

[jobaba]

Just be friends with ugly women. Then you'll never even care about the friend zone.

 

It might shock you to hear this from a man...

 

...but I can't recall the last time I thought of a female that I liked personally as ugly or even unattractive.

 

On the other hand, I know women who I definitely think of as physically unattractive because they are crummy people.

[verhrzn]

It might shock you to hear this from a man...

 

...but I can't recall the last time I thought of a female that I liked personally as ugly or even unattractive.

 

On the other hand, I know women who I definitely think of as physically unattractive because they are crummy people.

 

I've experienced it, and I've heard it. Having an ugly female friend is a great way to get some female presence in your life without constantly encountering the Friend Zone.

[somedude81]

Dude. You have got to take action.

 

Enough introspection.

 

Take your cue from the dude who just went through 26 women in the past year.

 

If you really want a woman (and I'm not so sure that you do), you've gotta put yourself out there.

You mean the virgin guy?

 

Of the men on here who have never had a relationship, I have never even heard of any of them even having a date.

Maybe it's because they can't get dates?

 

And if they actually manage to spend some time alone with a girl, it's not a date but just a friendzone get together.

[somedude81]

It might shock you to hear this from a man...

 

...but I can't recall the last time I thought of a female that I liked personally as ugly or even unattractive.

 

On the other hand, I know women who I definitely think of as physically unattractive because they are crummy people.

 

I've experienced it, and I've heard it. Having an ugly female friend is a great way to get some female presence in your life without constantly encountering the Friend Zone.

Ugly girls are very uncommon.

 

I actually made a thread a while ago to prove that point.

[jobaba]

You mean the virgin guy?

 

 

 

LOL!

 

Touche, SD, well played...