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I called this girl on March 26th and said I wanted to go out before April. Then I changed my mind because i just didn't feel the chemistry anymore. So we haven't talked since March 26th and I deleted her number.

 

Tonight she send a text saying Hi, how are you? BTW, It's April. I'm like.."who the hell is April??-lol So I told her to call me and she did and I still didn't recognize her voice and then she said,,,,"you said you wanted to go out with me before April"

 

Then I said..."OMG, it's her" So I'm on the phone just lying saying I was busy and then all of a sudden the phone hangs up. I called back and she didn't answer. Then I sent a text asking..."Did you hang up on me?? She didn't reply

 

So I started to send a nasty text asking..."Can you suck my d*ck next Friday?-lol

 

But then I quickly realized she has my full name and didn't want to send anything nasty or disrespectful so I just sent this text below

 

"REAL MATURE FOR A WOMAN YOUR AGE", SAD"

 

 

I didn't want to be too disrespectful toward someone who has my full name. But I now know that if I get a text and don't know who it is, I have to clarify over text and not tell them to call me. It was a reason I didn't know who she was because I lost interest and deleted her number.

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Why shouldn't she hang up, if you couldn't have the decency to just say you were no longer interested but instead tried to obviously lie about how busy you were?

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Why shouldn't she hang up, if you couldn't have the decency to just say you were no longer interested but instead tried to obviously lie about how busy you were?

They are not exclusive so he doesn't owe her any explanation whatsoever. Don't believe me? search my threads and look at common the courtesy one. That's what the majority of posters wrote.

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They are not exclusive so he doesn't owe her any explanation whatsoever. Don't believe me? search my threads and look at common the courtesy one. That's what the majority of posters wrote.

 

Ok, but why is he getting so vindictive and upset that she hung up on him? It's ridiculous.

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Why shouldn't she hang up, if you couldn't have the decency to just say you were no longer interested but instead tried to obviously lie about how busy you were?

 

 

Well if I said i wanted to see her before April and it's April 8th and she havent heard from me since March 26th, then she is the fool. Why even bother??

 

 

This won't happen to me anymore. In the text I will ask..."who is this?

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Ok, but why is he getting so vindictive and upset that she hung up on him? It's ridiculous.

 

Because it's RUDE to hang up on someone's ear???? She could have lied and said she was about to go to sleep

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Vindictiveness is not an attractive quality, PhillyDude.

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Vindictiveness is not an attractive quality, PhillyDude.

 

I'm not sure i know what you mean?

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Maybe her battery went flat or something?

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Because it's RUDE to hang up on someone's ear???? She could have lied and said she was about to go to sleep

 

Some of us think it's rude to lie. You got rid of her, as you wanted to, and then you get pissed that she hung up on you?? You know, you could have just apologized, and said that you didn't want to meet her after all - instead of being, oh, I don't know... RUDE, and just deleting her number, without telling her that the date was off. That's how you put it, and I doubt that she would have called if you had told her that you'd changed your mind.

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Maybe her battery went flat or something?

 

I gave that some thought which is why I didn't send a VULGAR message. But I will see when I wake up tomorrow.

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You've been hung up more inbrhe last week or so by random women then u have been since the start of the year. My marriage is supposed to be conflictual.

 

Something about your dating/communication style has to change.

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I'm not sure i know what you mean?

 

I'm not surprised. :(

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Even if it did go flat, once she gets the message you sent, i would expect she'll be pleased that no date was agreed on! I know it would put me right off receiving a rude text like that from a guy I hardly knew because he'd jumped to conclusions...

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Even if it did go flat, once she gets the message you sent, i would expect she'll be pleased that no date was agreed on! I know it would put me right off receiving a rude text like that from a guy I hardly knew because he'd jumped to conclusions...

 

I didn't send anything rude, i sent 2 texts

 

1st text...."Did you hang up on me?

 

2nd text...."Real mature for a woman your age, sad"

 

 

So what was rude about those texts?

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If i received a text basically calling me immature and sad for hanging up and and I hadn't hung up on you, I would think that you were clearly insecure and would thank my lucky stars you'd shown it so early on!

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Second text was shaming (even bordering on guilting) and very insulting.

 

Sad that you can't see that.

 

(see that was rude of me to say.)

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Second text was shaming (even bordering on guilting) and very insulting.

 

Sad that you can't see that.

 

(see that was rude of me to say.)

 

 

 

Well I started to send this text...."can I shove my D____K in your mouth"

LOL

 

So the fact that I sent the other text is no big deal

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Ok, but why is he getting so vindictive and upset that she hung up on him? It's ridiculous.

Who knows? Could of been a dropped call. Goes both ways. They are not exclusive so she owes him nothing, meaning she has the right to hang up without an explanation.

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....and you're how old??

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I would have lost interest as well. But I would have did like you and bs to see how it goes or maybe told her I wasn't into her anymore. But I would have just texted her asking what happened after the hangup. Cellphones do that sometimes. Even if she did it on purpose I would have just moved on as she isn't a huge part of my life at that point. So you overreacted. I had a girl do that to me before and then months later she was texting and we got it in. Sometimes dating is like that. If you date around and have girls to sleep with one girl won't throw you off like this. Women may think that's being a hoe and bad advice but I bet they respect a guy who is calm because he has a life.

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....and you're how old??

 

I'm in my mid 30's which is why I decided not to send it. I'm not 20 no more

 

LOL

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I called this girl on March 26th and said I wanted to go out before April. Then I changed my mind because i just didn't feel the chemistry anymore. So we haven't talked since March 26th and I deleted her number.

Seems you're the one who is playing games. Why not just be honest and tell her you changed your mind?

 

YOU invited this drama into your life and reacted by it too.

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I would have lost interest as well. But I would have did like you and bs to see how it goes or maybe told her I wasn't into her anymore. But I would have just texted her asking what happened after the hangup. Cellphones do that sometimes. Even if she did it on purpose I would have just moved on as she isn't a huge part of my life at that point. So you overreacted. I had a girl do that to me before and then months later she was texting and we got it in. Sometimes dating is like that. If you date around and have girls to sleep with one girl won't throw you off like this. Women may think that's being a hoe and bad advice but I bet they respect a guy who is calm because he has a life.

 

Wait a minute, this text is not calm?

 

"real mature for a woman your age, sad"

 

 

If that is not calm I'm going to the toilet

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Seems you're the one who is playing games. Why not just be honest and tell her you changed your mind?

 

YOU invited this drama into your life and reacted by it too.

 

It's kind of arkward to reject someone on a "LIVE CALL"

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