beauty0815 Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 Okay so ive been talking to this guy for about 21/2 mos online. 3.times in that time frame hes said he would call but never did , he gave some lame excude of being too busy. I kinda brushed that off necause I really liked our convos so I decidef to continue talking to him. Well when he finally does call we talk for hourd and then he asks to meet up. We meet n person athis house and we hang outside. He girst complimentds my beauty and from then on we.get the.convo going about our past , childhood , family , religion , interedts etc. overall he was a nice guy (not too much touching , immaturep thefirst day was great. Wen I get bck home he calls me and we talk till I fall asleep. Next couple days were heavy talking on the phone he goes on about " I can see a future with u , never felt this way before" cute right ..wrong. Well since my work schedule is crazy I saw him two more timed out of a.2.week period. Hes still very much interested calling me at.work just to day hi. He tells me he wants me to meet his mom hes told his friends about me. I felt the same way. Until 3 days ago I invited him to my spt he met partof my family. It started the usualhour long talks the laughing then yea one thing leaded to another and.wewent far. So afterward he was still nice and cool i took him home the next dayhe wanted a kiss before I left and we had a long kiss then he smiled and saidhed call whenhe woke up. Well next day no call allday I get online andhe deleted me I thought it was a mistake or something so I called he didnt answer so I wrote him and asked why he deleted me and he wrote bck an hour later sayin he didnt mean to add him again. So I did and it said he added me but when I triedto go on his.pgagain it saidhe deleted. Me again tht fastsmh so I just give up then he calls me and acts like nothin happened wen I asked him bout it he claims I deleted him -___- so I just laugh it off and here goes the convos again. Well the nxt day he accepts my request but inboxes me he thinks we shud b friends. I asked why I didnt do anything wrong and I really liked him shuda told me earlier before we went far. Hereplies we only hungout four times" :/ . I just wrote bck ok but deep down I washurt. The next day he inboxesme to call him and I do and he just talks guess he just like my convos. Well I kinda still like him but we.didnt bring up the breakup at all smh. The next dayhes liking my pictures online and messaging me about his.day and asking about mine. Convo still lengthy and good as alwaays he compliments my beauty again. Then tells me about his crazy ex.how she stalks him so we continued to talk bout how she wants him but he hates her. Weird subject rite anyway I get offline for.one hour get back to finish the convo and ONCE AGAIN he deleted me and his relationship stat says in a relationship with his ex.!!! I feel low and betrayed how cude of been soo dumb? Whyd he do tht to me?,.i need answers this hurts...
Romanm60 Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 Honestly........... Get out right now. He's using you for his own personal gain. I'm a guy and I know how they work. Its sad, i know, but if you just want to continue feeling hurt and continue wondering, then keep it up. No girl deserves to be treated like your being treated right now!!! Find someone who truly cares for you!! When you think you have found the right guy, deny him anything more than, hugs, cuddling, holding hands, and kissing. See how he responds. If he truly cares, then that wont change the way he acts towards you.
Author beauty0815 Posted April 9, 2012 Author Posted April 9, 2012 Thank you I really needed that advice. It hurts like hell though.
lizardking8610 Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 From my experience I can say with a fair amount of certainty that this is what is going on... This guy is not over his ex which is why he brings her up constantly. She probably left him and he is waiting for her to come back, or trying to get her back etc. Right now he is using you as a security blanket and/or a back up girlfriend and is conflicted or unsure if he can work things out with his ex and/or wants to be with you. This guy doesn't know what he wants and until he is I would avoid him.
Author beauty0815 Posted April 9, 2012 Author Posted April 9, 2012 Right I should have saw the signs guess I just really liked him. I honestly brushed a few things off about him. Z
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