winebrens21 Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 I was in a LTR and we broke up in November. Last week one of his good friends/ ex roomie messaged me on facebook. He began to tell me how sorry my ex was and admitted he had done wrong to me. He said my ex still talks about me like I was his world, and he can tell he's not ok without me. We have had NC since Nov and it ended very nastily. His friend said he wants us to get back together, and a whole bunch of other things. I was shocked by this. I am thinking about contacting him after this. Should I?
wilsonx Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 nope, let him contact you, hes not ready or he would do it himself 1
perryb13 Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 Be super careful with this one. I of all people know that its not easy to turn down an opportunity like this, but don't just go running back without really thinking it through. There was obviously a reason you broke up in the first place. Who's to say anythinf'st changed. What if the same thing happens again and now there's just more pain. Im not saying DON'T do it, just saying that its not a black and white situation.
CC12 Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 nope, let him contact you, hes not ready or he would do it himself Yeah, I agree. And if he asked his friend to contact you for him, that's even worse. Your ex should be the one apologizing to you directly, if he's that sorry.
lizardking8610 Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 As others have said I would proceed with caution. Also I don't know all the back story, not sure if you posted it elsewhere, but it might depend on how things ended i.e. Who dumped who? Why did the relationship end?
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