JBrigg916 Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Is this girl into me or are we just friends? (I've never had a girlfriend before) There's this girl that I like, really like, we're friends, but I am not sure if she's into me, as I cannot tell if she's flirting with me or not. First off, we talk loads, and I mean loads, when we talk we smile at each other and throughout the conversation we look into each others eyes, neither of us look away, when I finish talking she'll ask me a question or tell me something interesting, when we first started talking she was always looking down, talking really quick and stuttering on some words, now it's not so much. I s this a good or a bad sign? (I think it's good as it shows she's more comfortable around me) We both like almost all the same stuff, music games etc. I've made her laugh once or twice, and she's only laughed at me when I've made a complete and utter fool of myself. In addition, if I need anything, like a pen or a pencil or some help, she'll always help with anything I need. Finally when I asked for her number, she said yes and blurted it out at me. I'm very shy, and she's only just come out of a relationship, I don't care about being rebound, I really liek this girl for who she is not for sex or anything! When I send her messages she usually replies, however sometimes she doesn't, (she doesn't reply when I ask her how her holiday has been going, and when I ask other things) is this good or bad? Should I get to know her more after the holidays? I would really appreciate any help on this as it is urgent to me (I don't wan't to be just friends)
Oxy Moronovich Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 She's into you. Go for it. Onto the next thread.
BlazeOfGloryy777 Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 This situation sucks bro ive had to deal with it many times. some girls can be teases and lead you on. but if shes willing to give you her number and talk to you that is a step. how long have you two known eachother?? i think with what youre saying shes coming on to you but she wants to take it slow. you dont want to be a rebound man it only leads to a heartbreak. give it some time love and relationships do take quite some time. im in a similar situation and im taking it as slow as possible but its a little different. start asking her to do things with you like go to a movie to start or even just hang out depending on your age. good luck man let me know if this helps cause i can give a lot of advice but i cant take my own sometimes.
sid3 Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Wait, if you really like this girl, but not for sex or anything, why are you concerned about just being friends? Sometimes women make much better friends than lovers.
Author JBrigg916 Posted April 10, 2012 Author Posted April 10, 2012 @blazeofgloryy We've known each other for just over a month now. @sid3 Sorry, I didn't explain it properly, I wan't to have a relationship with this girl, but I don't care about having sex.
sid3 Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 @blazeofgloryy We've known each other for just over a month now. @sid3 Sorry, I didn't explain it properly, I wan't to have a relationship with this girl, but I don't care about having sex. Ok, I reread your OP......I see, you want to date her but sex isn't your only interest. It's likely you've read enough here to see there are some who believe in the friendzone and others who don't. Regardless of which camp you fall into you should ask yourself whether or not you are willing to stomach the chance of getting rejected in an effort to get what you want. Try and be her friend first and hope it turns into more or make your intentions known straight away. It's up to you.
dasein Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 Sounds like she likes you. If she likes to go and do things with you and talk on the phone, just keep that up. You two are at least 18 right? If not, you really need to ask your parents and friends about this, not us.
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