loveshk Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 (edited) my last serious relationship of 5 years ended in 2006 she cheated on me with her boss and was bi polar. May 1st 2011 started talking October 19 Messed around October 30th she says she misses me November 2nd Saw pics on an old camera with her and another guy got mad and left she cried and explained things were fine November –december she would take me to her friends family’s house for parties and said that she has never brought anyone around them before. She brought me over to her house and I met her parents and everyone liked me. Jan 5th she says te quiero “ I want you” “ I love you” type of thing around this time she would talk about our future and different events and such…places she would want to invite me and she spent the night at my place every other weekend around march it seems as thought something was bothering her. Her friends asked her what was wrong with her and how come she wasn’t happy. She was acting kinda distant and said nothing was wrong. We went to the rodeo and she met my mom . we all had a really good time. 3/14/2012 fight started she planned a trip to the rodeo with her daughter her friend and her 2 kids. She took her ex bf’s nephew with them to the rodeo. She invited me to go with them. The day of the rodeo i was in contact with her in the morning and everything was fine. I call her before I left and said I was on the way. She calls me 10 minutes later and says don’t come ill just see you tonight …. I said ok and hung up…I called her back and told her I didn’t want to be treated this way and that it was a rude move to have done that to me.i said plenty of ppl out there will treat me better I cussed and hung up the phone.. she called back several times inviting me to come and I ignored them and said that I made other plans. She apologized and said she should have never said that. 3/15/2012 She texted me like nothing was wrong . i asked her why she never called and said she was sorry or to give me an explanation. she said she was waiting for me to cool down and and that if it were her she would have wanted to be left alone 3/16/2012 email sent You came into my life and I had my guard up for a reason. As I got to know you, I thought to myself hmm, maybe this girl is different maybe I should give her a chance. So I did…. I gave you a chance and it was one of the best risks I have taken in a long time. I enjoyed spending time with you and going on our adventures. Hanging out with your friends and meeting your family. One of my favorite things was hanging out with the kids and making them laugh and watching them have fun. I know that the kids come first as they should and that’s why I always let you go when you first pick them up. I tried to make you happy but it seems like lately you weren’t happy at all. Telling me that you’re not sure if you want a relationship right now, what would I do if we broke up? Would we be friends?? All of this to me is telling me that you don’t want to be in a relationship. One minute your on and the next your off. I want someone who wants to be with me and is happy. I want someone who shows me that they care about me, and someone who respects me and my feelings. I really enjoyed spending the time we had together. I was proud of you and thought very highly. I found myself talking about you to people and bragging about this or that. I loved the fact that you were mine. 3/16/2012 called at 5:15pm and she answered saying she was at work and she would call in a minute. Called me back and said that she didn’t want to fight and didn’t want to talk at the moment and we would talk tomorrow. She never called 3/17/2012 Sent a text saying that I am thinking about you… I know that we have hurt eachother and it sucks ..i hope your day is better, (no response) 3/18/2012 I started checking myself in on facebook and with friends to appear busy 3/24/2012 invited by her friend to a family party where the x was going to be. I told her friend that I already had plans. She wanted me to come and to talk to my x girlfriend..she said you know how she is she is stubborn and she wont call you until you call her 3/25/2012 I limited what the x girlfriend could see on facebook and she deleted me 3/26/2012 Her friend tagged her into some pics with her standing with another guy with his arm around her waist and her hand on his During our relationship she said some weird things to me. These things were said over time She says she gets tired of relationships after a few months She says when she breaks up with someone she does no contact She asked if we broke up would we be friends I said I don’t know….she said she was j/w She was jealous when I would go out by myself with friends She was extremely jealous of my friend that is a girl She didn’t know if she wanted to be in a relationship right now..she said she doesn’t want to have to worry about the other person and if she would hurt them All these times I would ask her if she wanted space and she said no.. I did back off a little and she pressed forward. 4-8-12 I gave her a necklace in February that was my grandmas and it meant a lot to her. I saw a picture of her and she was wearing the necklace today I also spoke to one of her girlfriends x boyfriend and he said that her x boyfriend who is her babys dad said that he cant stand her because she is always leaving her child with her parents where she lives while she goes out During our relationship I felt like things were good..no fights ..we got along.. she said that I was the best boyfriend that she has had. And that I was really nice and sweet to her…at the same time I did also try and be an ******* sometimes.. I wouldn’t call her and would have her call me.. she said I never call her so occasionally I would call her. We talked every day and hung out every other weekend when she didn’t have her daughter.. sometimes I would hang out with her daughter when she got more comfortable with me. Her x boyfriend said that she shouldn’t take me around her daughter because he didn’t want her daughter to get attached to me Edited April 8, 2012 by loveshk
FitChick Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 Either learn to make paragraphs so people can read what you've written or condense it into no more than ten sentences. Maybe then you will get a reply. 1
sid3 Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 how can i edit my post?? Make another one. I could'nt read that huge block of text either.
CarrieT Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 Admin delete thread Ain't gonna happen - just re-post what you wrote above so that it is legible.
Anela Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 my last serious relationship of 5 years ended in 2006 she cheated on me with her boss and was bi polar. May 1st 2011 started talking October 19 Messed around October 30th she says she misses me. November 2nd, Saw pics on an old camera with her and another guy, got mad and left. she cried and explained things were fine. November –december she would take me to her friends family’s house for parties, and said that she has never brought anyone around them before. She brought me over to her house and I met her parents and everyone liked me. Jan 5th she says te quiero “ I want you”, “ I love you” type of thing around this time she would talk about our future and different events and such…places she would want to invite me and she spent the night at my place every other weekend. around march it seems as thought something was bothering her. Her friends asked her what was wrong with her and how come she wasn’t happy. She was acting kinda distant and said nothing was wrong. We went to the rodeo and she met my mom . we all had a really good time. 3/14/2012 fight started she planned a trip to the rodeo with her daughter her friend and her 2 kids. She took her ex bf’s nephew with them to the rodeo. She invited me to go with them. The day of the rodeo i was in contact with her in the morning and everything was fine. I call her before I left and said I was on the way. She calls me 10 minutes later and says don’t come ill just see you tonight …. I said ok and hung up…I called her back and told her I didn’t want to be treated this way and that it was a rude move to have done that to me.i said plenty of ppl out there will treat me better I cussed and hung up the phone.. she called back several times inviting me to come and I ignored them and said that I made other plans. She apologized and said she should have never said that. 3/15/2012 She texted me like nothing was wrong . i asked her why she never called and said she was sorry or to give me an explanation. she said she was waiting for me to cool down, and and that if it were her she would have wanted to be left alone. 3/16/2012 email sent. You came into my life and I had my guard up for a reason. As I got to know you, I thought to myself hmm, maybe this girl is different maybe I should give her a chance. So I did…. I gave you a chance and it was one of the best risks I have taken in a long time. I enjoyed spending time with you and going on our adventures. Hanging out with your friends and meeting your family. One of my favorite things was hanging out with the kids and making them laugh and watching them have fun. I know that the kids come first as they should and that’s why I always let you go when you first pick them up. I tried to make you happy but it seems like lately you weren’t happy at all. Telling me that you’re not sure if you want a relationship right now, what would I do if we broke up? Would we be friends?? All of this to me is telling me that you don’t want to be in a relationship. One minute your on and the next your off. I want someone who wants to be with me and is happy. I want someone who shows me that they care about me, and someone who respects me and my feelings. I really enjoyed spending the time we had together. I was proud of you and thought very highly. I found myself talking about you to people and bragging about this or that. I loved the fact that you were mine. 3/16/2012 called at 5:15pm, and she answered saying she was at work and she would call in a minute. Called me back and said that she didn’t want to fight and didn’t want to talk at the moment and we would talk tomorrow. She never called. 3/17/2012 Sent a text saying that I am thinking about you… I know that we have hurt eachother and it sucks ..i hope your day is better, (no response) 3/18/2012 I started checking myself in on facebook and with friends to appear busy. 3/24/2012 invited by her friend to a family party where the x was going to be. I told her friend that I already had plans. She wanted me to come and to talk to my x girlfriend..she said you know how she is she is stubborn and she wont call you until you call her. 3/25/2012 I limited what the x girlfriend could see on facebook and she deleted me. 3/26/2012 Her friend tagged her into some pics with her standing with another guy with his arm around her waist and her hand on his During our relationship she said some weird things to me. These things were said over time. She says she gets tired of relationships after a few months. She says when she breaks up with someone she does no contact. She asked if we broke up would we be friends. I said I don’t know….she said she was j/w. She was jealous when I would go out by myself with friends. She was extremely jealous of my friend that is a girl. She didn’t know if she wanted to be in a relationship right now..she said she doesn’t want to have to worry about the other person and if she would hurt them. All these times I would ask her if she wanted space and she said no.. I did back off a little and she pressed forward. 4-8-12 I gave her a necklace in February that was my grandmas, and it meant a lot to her. I saw a picture of her and she was wearing the necklace today. I also spoke to one of her girlfriends x boyfriend and he said that her x boyfriend who is her babys dad said that he cant stand her because she is always leaving her child with her parents where she lives while she goes out. During our relationship, I felt like things were good..no fights ..we got along.. she said that I was the best boyfriend that she has had. And that I was really nice and sweet to her…at the same time I did also try and be an ******* sometimes.. I wouldn’t call her and would have her call me.. she said I never call her so occasionally I would call her. We talked every day and hung out every other weekend when she didn’t have her daughter.. sometimes I would hang out with her daughter when she got more comfortable with me. Her x boyfriend said that she shouldn’t take me around her daughter because he didn’t want her daughter to get attached to me. There, edited a bit for you. I'm having a bad night, so I have no advice, but maybe someone can help. 1
Jane2011 Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 Anela, aren't you sweet! OP, I'm too lazy to read it, too. It's nothing personal. I'm too lazy to read half these threads. (I'll stop wasting replies on your thread, though...)
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