lostconfidence Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 well here it is basicaly i am goin to a club tomorrow with a big dj playing i am goin with a few friends one being my sister who has just informed me that my ex and her fella are goind aswell they are not goin with us but they are goin with a load of other ppl most i know am thinking should i go? part of me thinks i wil just stand and stare at her and put a fist in his face by the end of the nite and ruin my nite but in the other hand am very competitive i have my confidence back i know am better looking than this chump, better dressed (hes a tramp) and i kinda want to go casue i know i can prove to myself iam back in control of this mess i know ill see her and shell will come over and say hello and say i look good and i want to say i would saythe same to you but you look wiped out... lol i know that will annoy her she never took es when with me but now shes bad on them what you ppl think? and and last week she went to a cllub with this guy and every pic she took was of him 2 of her posing with himand thats it proving shes moved on. i dont think so she went with him a week after i broke with her read my previius thrads cheers
BewitchedandBothered Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 You don't have to prove anything to anyone. Also, don't tell her she looks 'wiped out'; just say thank you and move on.
rdb Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 You are psyching yourself out. If you are running the scenarios threw your head, she is still in control. If you were in control and didnt give a crap you'd just say that on the fly without any preparation. If she doesnt respond the way you think she will you are going to be 100% off kilter. You need to drop your agenda for any sort of confrontation to 'prove yourself' right now. You seem to have a big ego for someone whose name is 'lostconfidence', and just know that trying to take it back by using your ex and the new chump she is with won't happen. Go tomorrow. Dance. Drink. Enjoy the company of your friends and all the women who aren't your ex. Ignore her. She is now any other person but she is with someone so she shouldnt be in your target demographic.
EgoJoe Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 Don't go. Mentally pat that guy on the back for removing a ticking-time-bomb problem from your life. Go do something else.
Author lostconfidence Posted April 9, 2012 Author Posted April 9, 2012 yeah i am goin am not goin for her am not goin to see here or speak to her. i have no intrest in what she dose. i feel if i dont go then she is in control stopping me form goin out something that i would do normaly. if she says hi il say hi if she dosnt i dont care and shell be wiped out she knows i hate them shell feel bad without even speaking to me. an yes i had a massive ego lol. she destroyed it am slowly getting it back
Author lostconfidence Posted April 9, 2012 Author Posted April 9, 2012 and in fairness i deserved to have it taken down a peg or 2
Author lostconfidence Posted April 11, 2012 Author Posted April 11, 2012 well looks like you guys wher right i shouldn have went lol i was in the club 1st i stood right in the corner and she stood right in front of me the whole nite kissing him lol. all nite!! she didnt even say hi last week i wished her all the best **** sake. then when i was leaving she stood i foot away from me kissing him with her eyes open.... so i cracked him lol the second i lifted my hand she was on top of me tryna dig my eyes out r somefing lol he stood there like a plank. anyway my sister foned her the next day and she said that she told me to move away 5 times and that i stared at her all nite and am jealous.lol considering her table was at the other side of the bloody club...she was coming over to me ... why the hell would she get on like that if she said hello i wouldv just said it back 1
g450 Posted April 11, 2012 Posted April 11, 2012 Im going to jump on your case now. You went there on purpose and you know it. You wanted the drama. Are you and adult? Why are you playing high school games? Is that the only club within a 50 mile radius of where you live? Seriously? Stop it! Why is it that human beings are so hell bent on torturing themselves? 1
flitzanu Posted April 12, 2012 Posted April 12, 2012 you punched the new guy that's railing your ex girlfriend? you must feel really awesome now.
Author lostconfidence Posted April 13, 2012 Author Posted April 13, 2012 well its done now and yeah it did feel good. and the fact that shes now running around telling ppl 10 different stories. and i just see she her now as just a pathetic little girl in which i care nothing for
Chi townD Posted April 13, 2012 Posted April 13, 2012 Geez DUDE!!! You punched the guy out, had her trying to scratch your eyes out, your lucky you're not in jail. NOW, you're finding out that she's talking to people about you, because NOW she's justified in telling people that you are insane!! And, she's glad she got rid of you. Because if you could do this in a crowded club, imagine if she was alone with you! You made yourself out to be a violent asshat and she's now the victim (poor me). And now you don't have a leg to stand on. Can't you see that hanging around this girl is extremely toxic, stay FAR away from this chick. 2
rickys Posted April 14, 2012 Posted April 14, 2012 (edited) agree with you all guys....... Edited April 14, 2012 by rickys
Author lostconfidence Posted April 14, 2012 Author Posted April 14, 2012 chi mate your spot on she played me big time..and i am not a violent person i would never lift my hand esp to woman.
Frank13 Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 then when i was leaving she stood i foot away from me kissing him with her eyes open.... so i cracked him lol the second i lifted my hand she was on top of me tryna dig my eyes out r somefing lol he stood there like a plank. I hate to admit it but I laughed when I read this. I mean honestly, I think she was purposely trying to mess with you and make you jealous the entire night. I think you would have been cool if she wouldn't have messed with you by standing in front of you kissing him all night. Should you have cracked the guy? No. Can I understand why you did? Yes.
Frank13 Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 well its done now and yeah it did feel good. Well at least it wasn't a total loss. Lol. Maybe we need a new guide here on how to feel better. We have the NC guide and now maybe we need the "Crack your ex's new BF" guide.
Author lostconfidence Posted April 15, 2012 Author Posted April 15, 2012 of course she tryna make me jealous. and i played right into it. she told my sister the next day that she told me to move away 5 times me and my friends.thats lies and then she told my cousin last nite that she was that wipedout that she cant remmeber where she even was.. more lies .lol and i am ment to being goin out this weekend to the same place to meet a bird to and apparently there s about 40 of his mates goin aswell for me. even tho he aint going.lol. the problem is am still very stuborn lol but ill not go
SilverBlueAndGold Posted April 15, 2012 Posted April 15, 2012 chi mate your spot on she played me big time..and i am not a violent person i would never lift my hand esp to woman. All the more reason to avoid this person at all costs. It doesn't sound there is one single positive thing that could ever come from it and you are at risk of finding yourself in some serious trouble if she brings that kind of behavior out in you. Start using your brain, if you know she is going to be someplace for crying out loud, go somewhere else!
BewitchedandBothered Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 of course she tryna make me jealous. and i played right into it. she told my sister the next day that she told me to move away 5 times me and my friends.thats lies and then she told my cousin last nite that she was that wipedout that she cant remmeber where she even was.. more lies .lol and i am ment to being goin out this weekend to the same place to meet a bird to and apparently there s about 40 of his mates goin aswell for me. even tho he aint going.lol. the problem is am still very stuborn lol but ill not go What's "tryna"? 1
HollyBolly Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 What's "tryna"? I see you are just as frustrated as I over the respect these kids have for the English language. Apparently, to them, it is as it sounds. Hence 'I know I should of'. Should OF!!! Should OF!!! ARGH!!!!!
Author lostconfidence Posted April 16, 2012 Author Posted April 16, 2012 we are not bothered about are grammar when we are talking about are emotions!!! lol that means am laughing out loud and yes i know shes toxic!
SilverBlueAndGold Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 we are not bothered about are grammar when we are talking about are emotions!!! Come on, now you are just needling us. *fishslap* lol that means am laughing out loud and yes i know shes toxic! Good. At least you get it. Now stick to it!!!
Chi townD Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 Yeah Dude, if you would have just giggled shook your head and walked away, that would have pissed her off to no end because you didn't give her the reaction she was hoping for. She would have been upset that you didn't play into her hands. She would have had her opportunity to be the victim stripped away from her. If you would have laughed shook your head and walked away, the people that DID know about you two would have thought that she was a "total B*tch for doing that to you. No class what-so-ever!!" and her plan would have totally backfired on her. Smart thing to do right now? Just pretend she moved to China. She not there and not in your life. 3
HollyBolly Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 we are not bothered about are grammar when we are talking about are emotions!!! What are you "tryna" say?
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