quietGuy13 Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 I'm single. no gf no nothing. Can i try an Escort. Are all escorts either fake, or just sex and all that. or are there some that are just nice girls who want to accompany you. I think escorts should just change to that..-->Being friends. In fact, why do they want to do sex. I'm not asking for sex, so why they want to? Why aren't there FRIEND ESCORTS? Why is it only about sex. i dont get it. But anyways, where do you get Escorts who are real(Backpage etc are fake scams), and who are willing to just keep you company and no sex.
somedude81 Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Yes there are escorts who will spend time with you and pretend to be your friend. You can actually find them in the phone book.
jobaba Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 There is such a thing called a surrogate girlfriend. Very good article on the matter... "I was a middle-aged virgin" - Sex - Salon.com
Negative Nancy Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 It's called GFE - Girlfriend Experience (I used to read on hooker boards. )
soundofviolet Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 You'd rather have a fake friend than be alone?
Oxy Moronovich Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Escorts aren't all about sex. They'd be happy to sit around and talk to you without the sex.
MrNate 2.0 Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Don't resort to this man. What will you learn from this?
Oxy Moronovich Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Don't resort to this man. What will you learn from this? He hasn't learned anything by not doing an escort.
El Brujo Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 I'd never do the escort thing because the chances are about zero that there are any women who enjoy the same things I do. Faking it won't work either.
ThatDudeXO Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Don't do it. Just meet some friends or find yourself an FWB lol. Faking intimacy is worse than not having it. 1
udolipixie Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 If you want to do escorts then do so. However if you consider someone faking interest in you and paying it comparable or an efficient replacement to having someone desiring you and wanting to be with you as a friend or girlfriend out of attraction, liking you, and/or love. How come you didn't consider escorts sooner? You didn't want to pay for it? I think escorts should just change to that..-->Being friends. I don't think that would be rational considering most don't pay their friends and I doubt the escorts would truly consider the person a friend rather than a client. In fact, why do they want to do sex. I'm not asking for sex, so why they want to? I doubt most want sex. I think most will have sex for money. Doing something doesn't automatically equate to wanting to do it. Why aren't there FRIEND ESCORTS? Why is it only about sex. i dont get it. There are escorts who will fake friendship, emotional/mental connection, etc. Escorts are people paid to do whatever you wish within reason. I met & know plenty of guys who have escorts act out scripts they saw in a movie or porn. where do you get Escorts who are real(Backpage etc are fake scams), and who are willing to just keep you company and no sex. Try researching online with forums that have reviews the MRA and incel forums generally tend to have a section or a few threads. Check out the phonebook.
Oxy Moronovich Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Don't do it. Just meet some friends or find yourself an FWB lol. Faking intimacy is worse than not having it. If he gets tired of the fake intimacy, he can always have sex with the escorts.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 I think escorts should just change to that..-->Being friends. I can see it now: Soon all escorts will be uttering the line: "I really like you as a person, but I don't want to risk the friendship by having sex with you"
ThaWholigan Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 I can see it now: Soon all escorts will be uttering the line: "I really like you as a person, but I don't want to risk the friendship by having sex with you" I lol'd hard.......
Leigh 87 Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 I think escorts are a GREAT option to have! Some men are not attractive enough to ever get a beautiful looking women to have sex with them. Yes, it is far more fulfilling to have a loving relationship, than a one night stand; I am not disputing this. However, some men are simply too unattractive to easily obtain sex from a " hottie". Some of the ugliest men, who have a very strong urge to have sex with an attractive women, can therefore make their sexual fantasy become a reality. To be honest, I do not think it is a great lifetime career; it is a great service to provide to men, however, I hope the girls do pursue a second career later on. The women earn very good money, in some cases... 1
Disenchantedly Yours Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 Geez, is there a better job then being a fake friend? I'll do it. I don't have to sacrifice my morals and can make some money. Perfect.
KathyM Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 Don't waste your time (or your money) on fake friends, fake intimacy, fake love life. Spend your time and energy on going after something real where true feelings are involved, and where you are not contributing to something destructive.
oaks Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 Why aren't there FRIEND ESCORTS? There are. They are called "escorts". When you're negotiating the fee you can discuss exactly what you'd like, and if what you'd like is a friend to go to dinner and a movie with then I'm sure you won't find your money refused. Of course, the illusion might be shattered by having a conversation along the lines of "I want to pay you to pretend to be my friend"... 1
Mme. Chaucer Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 But do you have money for the escort, if you go this route? And if you do, will you two be doing whatever it is you choose to do in your room at your parents' house? I have asked you this question multiple times, and you have never answered me. I'll try again: Do you have any plans to ultimately leave your parents' home and to gain more independence?
Mme. Chaucer Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 I think escorts are a GREAT option to have! Some men are not attractive enough to ever get a beautiful looking women to have sex with them. Yes, it is far more fulfilling to have a loving relationship, than a one night stand; I am not disputing this. However, some men are simply too unattractive to easily obtain sex from a " hottie". Some of the ugliest men, who have a very strong urge to have sex with an attractive women, can therefore make their sexual fantasy become a reality. To be honest, I do not think it is a great lifetime career; it is a great service to provide to men, however, I hope the girls do pursue a second career later on. The women earn very good money, in some cases... Leigh, I hear what you are saying, but I assure you that the "oldest profession" really has little to do with ugly guys and hotties.
Feelsgoodman Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 But do you have money for the escort, if you go this route? And if you do, will you two be doing whatever it is you choose to do in your room at your parents' house? I have asked you this question multiple times, and you have never answered me. I'll try again: Do you have any plans to ultimately leave your parents' home and to gain more independence? Why are you so concerned about his independence? If you ask a personal question like that repeatedly and don't get an answer, it likely means that the person you are attempting to interrogate thinks it's none of your business. Do you imagine yourself to be some sort of an amateur "life coach"? The OP asked a question about obtaining non-sexual services from escorts. He was given several answers relating directly to his query. That should have been the end of it. Yet, here you are trying to scold the OP for living with his parents. WTF? I know that you like to think of yourself as some sort of a "matronly figure" here on LS but that doesn't change the fact that your condescending "motherly" tone is totally inappropriate. Maybe you should focus on raising your own kids (if you have any) instead of trying to lecture men online.
Mme. Chaucer Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 Do you imagine yourself to be some sort of an amateur "life coach"? The OP asked a question about obtaining non-sexual services from escorts. He was given several answers relating directly to his query. That should have been the end of it. Yet, here you are trying to scold the OP for living with his parents. WTF? I know that you like to think of yourself as some sort of a "matronly figure" here on LS but that doesn't change the fact that your condescending "motherly" tone is totally inappropriate. Maybe you should focus on raising your own kids (if you have any) instead of trying to lecture men online. Is your own condescending tone appropriate? For the record, I am not trying to "scold" this poster. I have read many threads by him, and I think he would be best helped with every single one of his issues if he could find a way towards more independence. 3
SincereOnlineGuy Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Don't waste your time (or your money) on fake friends, fake intimacy, fake love life. Spend your time and energy on going after something real where true feelings are involved, and where you are not contributing to something destructive. Come to think of it, I'm not entirely convinced that Loveshack isn't a fake relationship forum.
SableWolfAngel Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Getting together with an escort can be exciting and more fun than you think. Just make sure you get a classy one, not a girl being held against her will. Most high end escorts do it because they want to, not because they're being held hostage. Try it! It'll be fun
Eclypse Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 I wouldn't do it. Any sense of self worth I had would be completely shattered as I'd always be constantly reminded how horrible my personality must be that I can't even get FRIENDS without paying for them, much less a sexual relationship with a woman. Although I can't imagine your self esteem would be high in the first place for you to even contemplate this. I hope this doesn't sound too harsh, I really don't mean it in a bad way. Just focus on getting friends or a girlfriend by yourself... I'm sure you'll feel better when you succeed.
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