MrLonely92 Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 There is a girl that i have been flirting with for months now, and it was almost like love at first sight. Because when we first saw each other we were both shocked. Now she has dropping way more signs then i have for the last couple of months. But lateley i have been trying to start conversations with her and flirting a lot. But i start them 75% of the time so now im like you start talking to me until i see you again. Thats in 2 weeks and we have been talking through texts. Now before this she had things in her messenger name like i love you, dreaming of us, thinking about you and kisses and harts and whatever, she even sended me a hart before in a text. But now she has nothing in her name she removed the hart and everything. I have been dying to ask her out but i wanna do it in real life. Now i dont want the flame to go out because im not gonna start a conversation again. Even when we had them 50% of the time i had to wait 10-30minutes for a reply. So shouldn't i worry and just wait till she might start a conversation or should i initate? Do i need to worry or what? I really like this girl and according to other people i have a lot of options but i just want her! So what to do?
wwwjd Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Be the man, step up, initiate. ALL women want the guy to take control and be a man. (reguardless of what they tell you vocally, or show you, or hint at)
Author MrLonely92 Posted April 8, 2012 Author Posted April 8, 2012 Initiate a conversation through text or initiate to go out on a date? because the date part i will do as soon as i see her(in 2 weeks)
Professor X Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 You see her in 2 weeks? Pick up the phone, have a small chat, compliment her a bit and ask her on a date that will take place in 2 weeks when you are suppose to see her. P.S. I am curious, why you communicate only via text and IM? Have you met in person before? Or have you met her online?
Oxy Moronovich Posted April 8, 2012 Posted April 8, 2012 Yeah, pick up the phone. Stop wasting time via text. Many women wanna initiate but they get advice from other women telling them the guy should do most or all of the initiating. So why don't you ask her why she doesn't initiate?
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